Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

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Re: the na from above

[(Anonymous)]

I hope you realize that this many of you taking the most tepid "there are a lot of weirdos in this hobby" personally and viciously freaking out in response does not, in fact, inspire confidence

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

multiple people disagreeing with you is not "freaking out". what do you expect to post opinions in a public space and only get empty +1s?

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

multiple lightning fast replies leaping straight to personal attacks and "you must be ontologically evil if you have a different experience than me" is not giving well-adjusted and normal, chief, idk what to tell you

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

only one answer has a personal attack ("if 90% of your rp partners are bitching at you, you may be the problem"). everyone else is being perfectly civil. you're only proving anons' point by exaggerating people's reactions when it's actually nothing.

"multiple lightning fast"
oh no people are online at the same time. how dare they. ah, but if you come back to a anon thread days later, you're a loser that can't let go. i'll never understand what anons think the right amount of minutes is to reply to a thread

sa

[(Anonymous)]

also i just noticed you said viciously freaking out which is just insane. the anon who said the weirdos are the ones who white-lie because they can't deal with people's reactions may be onto something.

Re: sa

[(Anonymous)]

sorry for using the wrong adjective to describe people immediately jumping into attack mode to try and justify themselves I guess?

you're still doing it btw

Re: sa

[(Anonymous)]

again, people disagreeing with you =/= attack mode

people seeing a thread and deciding to participate =/= "immediately jumping"

you're also justifying yourself. you're also replying fast. you're just trying to distract from the point with the equivalent of "u mad"

funny how you're ignoring the anon who asked you for specific examples of people freaking out

Re: sa

[(Anonymous)]

I dont even need to provide specific examples when you're right here

Re: sa

[(Anonymous)]

waiting anon here: the anon you're referencing wasn't engaging you at the time when you made a sweeping comment about all of us.

i'd be keen to see any examples from prior to the timestamp of your comment - or an honest acknowledgement that maybe you jumped the gun a little with that descriptor.

Re: sa

[(Anonymous)]

they were engaging me, actually

that was me responding to them being weird at me, specifically

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/97045.html?thread=280529429#cmt280529429 and this is just the same "actually YOU'RE the terrible person" dressed up in more polite terms

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

"nobody is jumping to personal attacks except one person, ignore that other one and also *immediately jumps to another personal attack*"

since we're being personal about it, you have the kind of frenetic interrogative energy that suggests to me that I would probably just stop tagging you instead of deal with all that. gonna go tag my normal rp partners who aren't weird now

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

how is someone saying "you're proving their point" a personal attack? and how are the others being weirdos for saying these things but you are fine for calling this thread "vicious" and "weirdos"? what in god's name is this logic?

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

"there are a lot of weirdos in this hobby" is not the same statement as "you, personally, are a weirdo," but the fact that you think it is explains why no one wants to communicate with you

this is me matching your energy, btw

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

but you didn't attack only me. you complained about (direct quote) "this many of you". and you are still only ignoring the other anon who asked you for examples of people supposedly freaking out.

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Im assuming that anon is you at this point so here

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/97045.html?thread=280528661#cmt280528661
https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/97045.html?thread=280529429#cmt280529429 --> this is the same thing as the first one just worded more faux politely

I feel like I don't need to link the rest for obvious reasons

Anyway, I advocate communicating with people who seem normal (some people) and absolutely just ghosting people who give off weird vibes (a hell of a lot of other people), hth

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

think we're going to have to agree to disagree, because i don't see the first comment you linked as attacking anyone. the second one, i guess i can see people taking issue with the word maladaptive - though notably was still not an attack at anyone in the thread.

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

no, that anon is not me. only one subthread is mine. rpa mod is free to check ips if that's what it takes to make you believe that multiple people disagree with you

how are those people freaking out? i'm not even trying to argue, i'm genuinely confused. do you think hyperbole is freaking out now?

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

you're one of the weird vibe people hth

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

as the second anon linked, to be fair i wasn't really even trying to be polite. i just used the same wording in the comment i replied to and mentioned my experience.

there are two sides of a coin and i get both sides, but i also get why people won't want to be on the other side either.

nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

as one of the other anons in this threads advocating for people to try honest communication and boundary setting to facilitate a healthier environment, i'd be keen if you can flag where else i or others are "freaking out."

Re: the na from above

[(Anonymous)]

"""viciously"""

Re: the na from above

[(Anonymous)]

*viscously

lot of moist anons up in here.

Re: the na from above

[(Anonymous)]

are you trying to make a joke or are you trying to "correct" the proper spelling of a word with the incorrect spelling

da

[(Anonymous)]

pls it's a joke anon

viscous
moist

get it

[(Anonymous)]

noooo my anonussy