Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

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[(Anonymous)]

The point is y'all were reacting to a thing that was not said by me, at any point, as if I were one of the other anons you were having an argument with about white lies. You are ascribing sweeping additional statements to a single line joke about weird people in this hobby, and the dogpile of "actually YOU'RE the problem, you white liar" responses to a seemingly entirely different conversation than the joke I made is why it comes off as aggressive.

Also, if you're trying to persuade people that communication is ok and safe to do, it helps not to downplay people's experiences. We have stories on here every other day about overinvested rpers being weird at someone for one reason or the other, and I'm sure there are people who have had some pretty upsetting experiences that, while not the majority, have still stuck with them in a bad way. Talking down to them as if they're worried about nothing, no matter how right you may or be, isn't going to convince them.

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[(Anonymous)]

i think people have a right to share their experiences as equally valid, though? which is what they have been doing in this thread. the fact that they are doing so does not negate yours. the only person who can be said to be downplqying is the anon who effectively said if 90% of (generic) your tagmates are wankers, maybe you're the problem - but even they said, '90%' (at which point, yeah, if someone keeps running into that extreme of rotten apples, possibly they need to curate their space a bit more)

[(Anonymous)]

what, exactly, was your joke. i'm so lost.

you mean "I want to live in the alternate universe ayrt inhabits where socially maladjusted weirdos aren't painfully common in this hobby"? because yeah everyone got that was a joke, but you also gave +1 to the previous comment, which is why you were included in the group of "the other side of the argument".

i don't even care about this argument anymore. i'm genuinely shaking my head at how you're taking this. i'm not saying this in a condescending way and i apologize if it comes off that way. but you keep saying things about anons attacking you for things that you "didn't say" and that's just taking things way too personally. we've always used the general you/we to mean all the people on each side. people just happen to reply to the last comment in the chain. no wonder you think people are using "personal attacks" if you think they're for you specifically