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[(Anonymous)]

i'd say this is a mix of things and i'll address them separately.

rp: i think it's valid to be upset or not happy over the fact that a game you're in has a plot that you couldn't even sign up for in terms of what you'd like to play - not because you were being lazy/missed reading it, but because you were being an adult and working and it can easily feel like you're being punished for being responsible. (not to say that any of those other people aren't adults/adulting too, but between timezones and limited slots...) it's one of those things where i personally think mods need to give a head's up that there's going to be a sign up for limited slots for plot and give people the time in advance to sign up, or maybe post it at a time where most of the game is going to be able to see it and make a choice. if you'd just sat on your hands and forgotten to check or were mad over getting swept for missing ac because whoops, my bad brains, i'd have less sympathy for you, but i get the fomo and actually missing out because of responsibilities and not fun.

mental health: this was clearly just that last thing that tipped you over into having a depression episode. venting is good, but people are going to come in and crap all over you because 'get help bro' without actually offering help/suggestions other than the obvious. therapy's nice. it's also not always available/affordable. neither is medication. but i would, if i were you, step back and go find something you really enjoy that isn't rp related to go dive into for a bit. like a book or a movie or a walk or something that disconnects you for a bit so you can see that this is just a dip in your roller coaster and you can get back up again soon enough.

to be fair, rp is slowing down. most of us are old/working/family involved and don't have the time or energy to rp in eight games with twenty-three characters like we used to. seriously, though, find something non-rp for a bit just to chill.

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you for this. I will say that I am depressed and am medicated, and while it helps me function it doesn't always help stave off episodes like this. I appreciate the advice and think I am going to take a step back, at least for today. Just have the computer on for movies, play a game, get ready for other stuff I have to do today, ect. and just not worry about it. Going dark for a time can help that far.

[(Anonymous)]

Following up a couple of days later, I wanted to say thanks again. Sometimes all it takes is someone saying "yeah, that makes sense" to actually help, and while it flat-out is a plea for validation that was all it took for me to start calming down. I did end up taking a step away and the other stuff I handled the other stuff I was stressing over with help from a friend.

Thank you, anon. Understanding is the best thing you could have done here, and I'm grateful for it.