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(frozen comment) Re: VENTING GOES HERE

[(Anonymous)]

I keep experiencing intense anxiety whenever I message someone and they don’t message back within like, 20 minutes, especially if they’re usually quick at replying. I know, I know, people eat or go out or whatever and they’re not obligated to tell me about it, but I’ve had some really, really bad experiences in previous relationships with people being secretly angry at me and never telling me until it blows up into a confrontation, so I’m just worried that I made them angry or fucked up somehow, even though that’s usually not the case.

Tl;dr if people don’t talk to me or reply to tags I think I fucked up somehow and get super anxious and upset about it.

(frozen comment) Re: VENTING GOES HERE

[(Anonymous)]

this is going to sound pretty bad and it probably is, but it's honest. people like you are incredibly exhausting. i'm not here to babysit your anxiety. it's really weird to put that kind of pressure on someone. so what, they have to tag you back right away when you tag them, but what about you? do you have to tag back right away? what if you go eat/sleep? why do they have to be on/immediately responsive otherwise you go into chihuahua mode?

that and frankly, sometimes even in the middle of a thread i'm enjoying, i just get tired/headachy and want to take a break. i shouldn't have to come pat your butt about it or ask for permission to exist on my own as a human being because you might feel anxiety over it. your anxiety and weird feelings are not my problem, or your rp partner's problems. i really hope i never play with you, because i'd be super annoyed to find out that you're upset because i went to bed or took a piss during a thread.

(frozen comment) Re: VENTING GOES HERE

[(Anonymous)]

And I hope I never play with you because you sound like an insensitive bitch. I acknowledged that this is an issue, and I don’t bring it up to my thread partners. Nobody has to babysit anxiety, so yeah, this was a pretty stupid response, but thanks anyway.

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[(Anonymous)]

... wtf did you expect though. did you genuinely think this would get you sympathy? no.

frankly speaking i have been horribly shit on by someone who was manipulating me for years because i didn't reply to her every message fast enough (within ten minutes) and now i have NO sympathy for this. get over yourself. even if you're not telling your rp partners this it HAS to stop and you have to take care of it somehow.

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[(Anonymous)]

ya'll both sound super annoying and too easily triggered by each other's habits tbh

(frozen comment) Re: VENTING GOES HERE

[(Anonymous)]

then we can both be happy. i'm not insensitive to shit that happens, but i'm not here to be a person's therapist or cull my hobby around your playing. you can vent all you want. i'm going to vent about your venting because people like you are incredibly exhausting to know and doubly more so to have to be involved with.

everything becomes about you. everything mentioned has to be about you. if people aren't tagging you back, it's about YOU and not that they have their own lives, potentially across the globe.

like, feel free to vent all you want about being an anxious burden, but don't be so shocked and surprised when people agree with you and point out that you are difficult to be around.