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as someone who has been a caregiver for my mom for nearly six years now after her stroke, i have also had to deal with her bad moods and all the shitty things she can say when she decides she wants to basically be a bitch.

it's not easy in the slightest to deal with but i've learned sometimes the best thing is to just walk away and disengage when she's being like that. i come back about 30 mins later and she is either in a better mood or forgets what she said. talking to her about her behavior when she's in a better mood is a lot easier than basically having a yelling match. i don't always manage to walk away and disengage because it can get heated real quick when she wants to fight (and it can really feel that way). believe me, i know it's not easy to deal with in that moment.

but a big thing that needs to be monitored with any stroke patient is their exercising and sleeping habits. if they aren't getting enough of either, it's definitely going to affect their moods which will result in lots of shitty mood swings and outbursts over pretty much nothing or minor things (with my mom it's usually the tv).

a lot of my closer relatives don't have the patience to deal with her when she's like that and they often take it personally but i think it helps my mom always apologizes afterward when i tell her what she said and how rude/nasty she was. it happens less than it use to because i've had to learn what to do and from other doctors and physical therapy people.

best of luck to you, anon. i know it's rough.

tbh his memory isn't bad enough that i can do that, he's capable of long term grudges

he's definitely got unhealthy habits though. lots of sweets, not so much exercise, a lot of laying in bed or on the couch watching tv. he's a little overweight but it's not too bad i think

a lot of my relatives don't have the patience to deal with him either, with some of them complaining about his "tard rage" and generally using insults like that. i'm very patient in general so i don't take his tantrums personally (most of the time) but sometimes i get tired of bottling up my damn emotions and can't always fuck off somewhere else until i cool down

unfortunately he's got some toxic masculinity going on so he usually doesn't apologize and might even vent to others (like his wife) with "his side" where he's innocent and did absolutely nothing wrong, the other person was just being a huge bitch wtf guys!!

thanks for the caretaker solidarity, anon, i appreciate it. if i ever got married and had a spouse go through this, i honestly don't think i could put up with it though. he has bad moods, money problems, some of his more positive personality traits have been "lost", it feels so tragic if i put myself in his wife's shoes

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