rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2016-06-13 06:38 pm

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Re: LUCIFER

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
yup. second season was already guaranteed and i've heard about the same time that it would be a full season of 22 or so eps. they're already filming.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
frankly, i'd drop threads with you, too. you sound like a neurotic, needy fuck.

Re: -1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
there's a difference between expecting mindreading and having your rp partner know you want dubcon/noncon (or h/c or ice cream on the beach or w/e), and it's another thing when both parties are having discussions in private oocly (so no, it's not stage fright) about the threads they want to have and the rp partner seeming eager to play something out and op seeming eager to go along with it and then nothing happening and it possibly being because the rp partner wants dubcon/noncon, but they aren't stating they want it when the discussions around their threads follow a consensual theme. it WOULD require mindreading on the part of the op to figure out that's what the fuck they want, and without knowing that h/c or dubcon or having ice cream licked out of their asshole is what they're going for, why the hell would they just blurt out 'by the way, i don't like/don't mind (insert thing here)'.

from what it seems like, op's going to just flat out ask them, so there you go, but in this instance, it's on the part of the person who wants the thing that isn't being discussed to open their mouth and bleat out what it is they want. op is not at fault here. whether they have a kink/preference page up or not (because lbr here, not everyone goes to read those. i sure as hell don't. but if i'm playing with someone, especially with someone i've planned something out and talk oocly to and have multiple threads with, if i wanted something or wasn't sure about something, i'd fucking ask). op's partner is giving mixed signals "My char would so jump your char. It's going to happen. All over your char." and then backing away/turning away op's char during multiple threads. they are discussing. one of them's just not being fucking honest with what they want.

+1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
It's all the BR realms honestly.

Re: KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
i might have a few characters that'd work as the sister

hit me up with what brothers you have at thundersock

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
PM THESE PEOPLE DAMN IT, MAKE THEIR DAYS OR EVEN THEIR WEEK (OR MONTH OR EVEN A YEAARRRRRRRR)

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
this. tol barad and gallywix are just as bad, if not worse. BR realms haven't improved at all over the years.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
the only difference is they get tipped enough that makes up for it dude.

and if you really think they're on their feet more than anyone else, that's cute. that's really cute. i was backroom stock and i knew a cashier and guess what? most don't do just that and most are way more stressed because of all the rules that aren't really rules like no drinking or eating, no keeping a purse anywhere or any other kind of personal items, talk to customers and take them where they need to go but also don't leave the space you're working, clean your working space, and none of it matters how much time you have.

i worked exclusively in meat at wal-mart and if i was leaving to go on my break i was told to help and take anyone wherever they needed to be or find someone who knew. that would count as part of my break and if i went over, i'd be in huge trouble. you know what happens if someone saw me not helping a customer? i get in trouble. you know what happened if i had an accident? i get in trouble for the slip and cause the entire store to "lose" the bonus we'd have if we got to a certain amount of days without an accident (which happens, when you're cutting meat, too). the big guys pit the lower guys against each other and make them feel like if they fuck up they're fucked. and i don't get a tip for anything i do and i promise you when i worked in the deli on occasion or in cakes during certain times? we'd have huge lines and less than what we were legally supposed to have there at all times (because of stoves, freezers, etc. you're supposed to have someone watching or making sure certain things are done at all times).

basically lmfao maybe someone has it shittier than others, but most sbux workers get paid about as much as the average secretary, if not more. yeah you're gonna be stressed from the flow of business early mornings but you are getting paid enough to make up for that via tip. my sister averaged $25 an hour in the mornings when she worked at one. when she worked at another comparable chain she made a little less. evenings at sbux i think she evened out like $15-20 depending and the other chain she made more since they were a little more focused on things that weren't drinks.

what i'm trying to say is all fucking retail/food service is shit and everyone's excuse is the same.
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ahs: hotel

[personal profile] fullofrage 2016-06-17 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Dying to play some Tristan/Liz. Shipping, smut, anything.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
is this the same person who had that open letter on her journal to dw and maybe denise about how problematic thread droppers were and couldn't understand that she wasn't entitled to everyone tagging her back? i think it was her and she lost it because people were talking about how it is their choice if they get back to her or whatever and she went on and on about how she pms people and they'll say they'll get to it when they have time or something but she sees them?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
simmer down, beavis. i didn't say they had it so much worse than anyone else. i'm giving examples of why someone working at starbucks might bitch about it. retail/food service IS shit, and if people want to complain about work or family or whatever's up their butt, they should certainly be allowed to on their own goddamn plurk. it's not like they're going into op's plurk about kittens and crying over the milk they had to pour that day.

get the fuck over your retail persecution.

da

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
There's wanting things and saying what you want politely and there's being toxic when you don't get catered to exactly the way you want. You say that you wouldn't shit all over a game you enjoy playing in but shitting all over a game idea you're not even interested in joining is fine?

You act like the kind of person that'd start shitting all over the mods and fellow players of a game you were in the second someone started to do something you don't like instead of trying to deal with it constructively. The mod here wasn't thin-skinned, you're just that annoying and an example of what every mod in dwrp is sick of dealing with.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
disagreeing with the premise isn't 'shitting on'. neither is coming up with reasons why i specifically think that the topic's been done to death.

joke's on you, because i don't actually shit stir in games i'm in and i don't bring people up to shit on. a question was asked. i answered. the conversation went on and it's devolved so much from that at the moment. and i've mostly stayed out of it. and yes, the mod was thinskinned in thinking that contradicting opinions is shitting on a game, just like you're thinskinned if you think that me saying 'hey, allowing almost every kink but not this specific one doesn't really make sense and you're basically playing a mashup of all the sex games but not letting in one aspect because you don't like it. fine. don't like it. but don't make up some reason to make it valid.' all op had to say was 'i don't like dubcon/noncon and don't want to deal with it in a game'. bam. but no. everyone has to make up some special secret validation reason why they're right.

i'm wrong. you're wrong. they're wrong. who cares?

da

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
The irony is I was considering starting a sex game with aphro and noncon and kink to fill the coa void but after seeing this happen to cuddlemod there's no way I'm doing it if it means I might have to deal with some of the entitled pissbabies in this thread. Some of the suggestions were fine but knowing that the game might attract some of the other anons is enough for me to not want to touch it.

Two potential mods, one stone, and one of us actually was considering giving them what they want. When are people going to learn this isn't happening in a void? If dwrpers keep creating an atmosphere like this nobody's going to take up modding anymore.

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
i really wish you had shipped our characters or at least had been willing to give it a chance with an au. when you said you didn't and implied you never would, that's why i dropped our thread.

it sucks because you play your character really well and the chemistry was there but since you weren't open to it, i ain't wasting my time on threads i won't be able to enjoy completely. sorry.

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
you sound pushy and entitled as fuck

methinks this connection was missed for a reason

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
if you're willing to not make a game based on one or two anons on an anon comm that might not even join it because wah, pissbabies, you're likely not great mod material anyway. even if no one had said anything and you'd decided to go through with it, guess what? you're always going to have to deal with someone you don't like as a mod. every game has someone that's an asshole in it. most games have multiples.

but hey, keep using 'whiny pissbaby anons' as the reason why you're not modding instead of you knowing you have zero ability to actually mod or the desire to do so. if you wanted to make it, you'd make it. whiny pissbabies wouldn't stop you because you'd realize it's an inevitability. good job blaming it on anon comms when you come to anon comms and know what the atmosphere's like. no one's calling anyone an asshole except for the people trying to make this a buttpatting contest.

if you think that you'd get away without 'attracting those icky anons' you're fucking mistaken. you're also mistaken in thinking that all toxic assholes even go to anon comms. so. yeah. good job living in a bubble. keep on not making a game and then blaming it on other people because you have no follow through. "I would have made a game, if it wasn't for those blasted anons."

sure you would have, scooby villain. sure you would have.

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
i wouldn't say pushy, but definitely entitled. they only want to play with someone for ships and when they can't because someone doesn't want to, fuck cr? no one has to be 'willing to give it a chance'. they sound like every dudebro that wants a date with a girl. 'she could have at least given me a chance'. no.

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
dropping a thread instead of ship pushing on someone who wasn't open to it?

oh yeah, that's super entitled and pushy. totally.

Re: MISSED CONNECTIONS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
entitled in that they only want to play for a ship and 'you should have just tried the au', which means that it's not even canon, so not everyone's going to want to.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my god how do you not understand that disagreeing with someone is fine but doing it in an angry abrasive way isn't? It's not that you stated your preferences, it was that how you said it was obnoxious.

If you'd talked that way to a mod or player in a game you'd have been dinged for a warning or strike for how you worded it.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
only if the mod's a thinskinned tittybaby. i'll admit this comment and the one before it was a little more abrasive than i normally am, but most of the other comments i left (because they aren't all me) weren't calling them names or being like 'you stupid whore for not doing what i want'. i've said flat out, they can do what they want. they just might not get that big of a pull if they're just like eudio. how that comes across as 'abrasive' to you makes me question your ability to judge tone.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
okay so

being annoyed that 1. i was lied to, 2. my thread was dropped while the person who asked me to do the thread in the first place tags all of their other threads, and 3. venting about it on anon comm instead of harassing the person about it = neurotic, needy fuck.

nice logics bro you sound like a douchebag

Re: KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
B sounds fun! I can play a werewolf. Do you have a sock account?

da

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
be honest, anon. do you tell your thread partners you're not enjoying their threads as much as you are everyone else's? if so, how does that go down? inquiring minds want to know.