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look. even putting aside whether rape kink "should" be default or not, i wouldn't want to play with anyone who treated it as such. you know why? because of threads like this.

if you're into rape kink, that's totally fine, but if you lack the foresight to realize that some people are going to throw shitfits about it or may even be legitimately triggered by it (it does happen), i don't want to play with you, because that shows a SERIOUS lack of ability to see beyond what gets you hot.

i feel like dubcon/noncon should be a thing you ask for, not assume.

because unlikely the kinks themselves, consent to playing them is pretty much essential

did i say strangers or anyone should be okay with rape scenarios? way to jump to conclusions as you do, rapenon

if ayrt's partner is fishing for rape, they're in the wrong. but ayrt is also in the wrong for doing the exact same thing -- not stating what they're after right out the gate

i can work with that! feel free to pm ~sockabout if you're still looking

is there an option to seduce trump and because his new sugar momma?

this is literallythe least offensive ~tumblr~ sexuality they could have chosen. they want to date men and women, but not fuck them, so they chose some words to describe.

i mean christ it's not like they came out as a grey-ace demiromantic or some bullshit like that.

EVERYTHING should be asked for rather than assumed

that's why both players are wrong here, op also assumed (a more socially acceptable assumption, but still an assumption)

if they said they were after smut (and from the sound of it made it pretty clear it was going to be consensual), no they're not in the wrong for some fucking walnut assuming that meant a rape scenario was a-okay without asking first.

people who want to play this shit need to be asking others first. period.

there is no bottom to this rabbit hole is there

every time i think there is a bottom, it falls out under me to reveal yet more hole

op here and i thought it was a pretty fair assumption to make, considering i've already said we discussed it a few times and every chat made it sound like there would be mutual attraction and consensual hooking up

you mean the OP assumed their partner wouldn't spring a rape scenario on them without asking first? truly they are the devil itself.

they said flat-out they don't have a permissions post and they never said no noncon-dubcon

you can feel however you want to feel about noncon/dubcon, but if you don't make your feelings known (on your actual journal, not on anon spaces) no one is going to know

so yeah, it's her fault too. you having a hardon for dubcon/noncon players doesn't change that both players in this made the same mistake

YES A LANCE WHAT I'VE ALWAYS WANTED---I mean hi!! I have a thread for Allura over at dear-mun if you need any more voice-testing! ♥

op is right above, so why not ask them if their mysterious partner sprung a rape scenario on them during any of their multiple scenes?

i think if they did we'd be hearing about it

I would have totally protected your delicate support body with my meaty tank muscles, anon. I'm sorry you were squashed. :(

what part of "someone who wants to play rape needs to ask first" because it's fucking rape do you not understand?

it doesn't matter if OP had a permission post or kink list or whatever. hell, it wouldn't even matter if they hadn't already established there was going to be mutual attraction, as they've said multiple times in this thread, the onus is still on you to ask first because it's fucking rape you artist.

you're right, op. it IS a pretty fair assumption

but it's still an assumption

just message them. no one else can tell you what they want out of a scene but them.

HEY!! I would love to thread! I typically prefer bakerstreet for voice testing over dear-mun. I have a link for the "just share the bed with me" meme, but uh... Allura deserves better.

Are you down?! Because I'm certainly down!

if the other player won't let their character into a smut situation without coercion of somekind, that's springing a rape scenario.

are you the OP's partner? you are super defensive about this.

WELL MAYBE Allura deserves better but I am garbaaaaaaaaaage...................................

what part of "that's not the point being debated here" don't you understand?

something's not clicking in your skull. i haven't said once that op's partner is right. that's purely assumption on your part (ironically).

what i'm saying is that they need to be upfront too. dwrp is always a two-way street, even in instances like this. if you, me or anyone else doesn't make our desires clear, then we don't have any room to complain when other people come along wanting to play something we haven't yet said no to (or rather we can complain, but it doesn't amount to more than a hill of beans)

no, that's your assumption (and i'm starting to wonder if you're autistic with this kind of super-simplistic black and white thinking)

we get it. you hate dubcon and noncon. good for you. that doesn't mean you have any less of an obligation to be upfront about what you do and don't want than those icky sticky dubcon/noncon players

i don't see how i'm unreasonable here, but okay, shame on me for assuming a scene would have elements in it that we specifically discussed being there

and also as i already said, we will be having a talk about our threads

Oh. Well.

Bring that fine booty right on over.

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