i choose to marry the triceratops

[socksuke_uchiha]

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[(Anonymous)]

yep, and it's ignoring the odds that op's partner was, in fact, one of the many, many shiny chasers with the attention span of a gnat we have in this hobby

just assuming at this point that all the devil's advocates interrogating and belittling op are the exact kind of person they're talking about and feeling asschafed defensive tbh

[(Anonymous)]

i always kind of assume anyone whose response to "we didn't click and that sucks" is "okay but have you considered all the ways in which that is your fault" maybe needs to go outside and chill a bit.

[(Anonymous)]

a lot of anons here over analyze everything which is concurrent with all the anxiety diagnoses we got running around

[(Anonymous)]

honestly, i think that contributes but i also do think there are just people who get really happy from making other people feel like shit? just from how some conversations in rp woes go and how hard some people try to hammer in that people are bad / wrong / terrible for feeling a frankly normal way about pretty mundane concerns. it seems like a psychologic need to make people admit they're bad or to make people seem "defensive" to borrow a word that comes up a lot for trying to respond to or explain things they're called on or asked about.

they're broken people and i get that and when i notice it happening i remind myself to disengage because there isn't a reason to help them get off to it but man, i don't get the appeal. how awful must rp and the world seem if you assume every single person who has a negative feeling somehow deserved that feeling?