i choose to marry the triceratops

[socksuke_uchiha]

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Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

if everyone's on the same page with shipping with everyone, not being here for a singular romance and a full commitment, then yeah, it's exhausting having to pat someone's ass and reassure them constantly despite you giving them full signs that you like them and their tags. i've been there.

if the OTHER PLAYER that you're bitching about is here for a singular romance or a full commitment and you're stringing them along because you want all the ship things without having to either commit to the other character fully or accept this is one person you can't ship with in the context you're threading with them (probably a game?), the reason why it's stressful is because you're being a dick. i've also seen this happen.

idk which it is, which is why i'm throwing out both options.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

i had castmates once where they agreed to a ship and agreed to it being a sole ship situation and then one party kept getting in romantic situations with other people and telling the other half it had nothing to do with them. i still don't know why the other half put up with it for so long.

Op

[(Anonymous)]

it's not a game, it's unrelated psls where I feel like the other party is tracking how much I tag other rp partners because they've tried to call me out on my tagging speed with other people vs them

our schedules don't always line up so sometimes it's easier to boomerang with other people but they treat it as a personal slight.

Re: Op

[(Anonymous)]

they sound a bit too invested in you and I would just tell them that makes you uncomfortable. if they don’t knock it off, block them.

honestly it does suck seeing your favorite person boomerang other people but if you aren’t telling them you’re slow or giving them lame excuses vs being honest about your speed and why, then they’re just being crazy/out of pocket. we’re all allowed to feel bad about these things but it’s not right to bring it up to any rp partners.

[(Anonymous)]

GET OUT OF THERE QUICK.

If they are tracking your threads with other people, that is an IMMEDIATE red flag. I had someone do that a few years ago and it was not a good feeling. Because they are basing their entire happiness of tags from you, and they do not prioritize the friendship whatsoever.

Express your discomfort such unhealthy behavior and if they continue to do it, you need to cut those ties. It's okay to experience FOMO or to be sad, but that is something they need to come to terms with, not you.