Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

[socksuke_uchiha]

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Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

Different anon, but as one also having occasional issues getting tags, I'm curious, if you(general) would tag someone that just has a blank journal or just move on to someone who put info in theirs?

I always put some info on my char in the journal, but I see a LOT of blank journals too, where I would have to do the research to find out who the heck they are/what their canon is, and sometimes i wonder if it's even worth it. :o Is this is a 50/50 thing?

For example I'll see a top level, go "Ooh interesting icon/a canon name I'm unfamiliar with, who are they- *checks journal. Nothing there.*" and then I just -sigh-. I know it's a stupidly minor gripe but I genuinely wonder about this from time to time!

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

i always skip over blank journals unless they tag me first

[(Anonymous)]

Yah, I've been doing the same, was second guessing myself on that recently.

[(Anonymous)]

i mean there's no harm in branching out, for me it's just like... if you don't gaf about your character why should i

tell me what you think about them so I can vibe with you

[(Anonymous)]

lol well, not sure if it's a 'i don't care about this character' thing, but I somehow had the impression that blank journals like that were just.. I don't know, throwaways that they weren't going to make any effort to commit in playing the character?

Which I guess, if they were testing the muse out, and then ended up not liking the character, they wouldn't want to waste their time making the journal pretty, I get that. When I've voice tested mine I make a very simplistic permission/info thing, and then pretty it up later if the voice sticks.

To me, it's like having sprinkles and frosting on my cupcake/cookies vs having a plain ol' cookie. The plain cookie could be just as good, but I'm automatically more interested in the one with frosting.

i shouldn't have made that comparison, I want cookies now.

[(Anonymous)]

da

I understand this logic, but I'm also not a mind-reader. If there's not even a semblance of prefs on the character's journal, skipping the first impressions, how am I supposed to know if I'm not immediately giving them a tag they'll ignore because they only wanted m/m or only wanted this or that or the other, but didn't say so?

i also understand that like, they just won't tag back if that's the case, but then that's effort wasted.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I got the best thread imaginable from a blank journal and a character I was canonblind too. The only problem is, they disappeared and never returned fml.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

da and same. if i don't know your canon i'm not about to waste my time googling it because you can't be bothered to put some barebones info in your journal.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I also skip it. i don't want to have to get into a whole new canon just to tag a stranger— not because it's bad to do so or anything, but because i'm literally going to get too distracted googling this canon and then end up forgetting to tag the person. i've done it more than once.

but in addition to that, I guess I get kind of worried that since I'm blind to the canon and the player's preferences on a completely blank journal, i'll come up with a starter they don't like or tag them with a character that they absolutely don't want.

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Okay now I don't feel so bad about skipping blank journals. I don't usually worry too much about the permissions, as I just assume they don't have any particular permissions/triggers and if they did, they just wouldn't respond to my tags/tag me in general.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

yeah, i tag blank journals without a problem. i always just do crosscanon tag-ins as first encounters, so it doesn't bother me at all. i can't even remember the last time i read a permissions or info post tbh.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I try to get an idea of what the canon is, but I think that's mostly for my own curiosity, i should probably get into the habit of tagging blank ones too because why not?

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

whatever works for you? for me, info posts add zero value, so i don't really use their existence or absence as a decisive metric.

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

i too hate reading about characters in the reading and writing about characters hobby

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt but not the anon that responded weirdly

what do you do, then, in the absence of prefs? ftr I am asking genuinely bc my brain comes to a standstill when someone doesn't give me prefs and I want to know what others do in this situation so I can also do it

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

i don't toplevel much and tag out. i make a point of not tagging blank journals. there's enough people more invested in their characters' first impressions that i don't need to bother with people who can't do the bare minimum effort.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

also sa

but as someone playing from an obscure canon, blank journals just mean, to me, that they don't want crosscanon because it's working with the assumption that people already know the character.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

Ayrt, Oh.. that's a good point. I don't play from an obscure canon but it definitely isn't one of the new shinies so I think that's probably also a factor. I didn't think about the 'No cross canon' angle though, that's a possibility..

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

da but +1

i def assume they don't want crosscanon. they might? but how would i know?

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

i skip them. even if i know the canon, most memes i play in are shipping memes, and if i don't know if you like or hate our characters i'm not wasting my time writing a starter that you might hate.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I loathe blank journals,especially on ship/smut memes. I play a character that can fall into folks "no" category so I check journals to see if they're good with that and get so disappointed when the journal is blank.

Like I think your character looks cool/interesting! But I'm not going to waste time tagging someone who doesn't want to be tagged by my character.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

for crosscanon purposes i def have an easier tine with an info post to work with, but tbh i'll skip blank journals even on castmates anymore. like yeah i know the character but i still don't know the player's preferences...are they ok with backtagging, are they even into this ship i like between these characters? etc. i don't have tons of time to just trial and error starters trying to find out, so i just move on until i find somebody with at least a few more details to share

in my case im also playing from a popular canon with an abundance of castmates on memes atm, so it's not like i've got a dearth of options

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I skip them unless they tag me first. I could tag them, but my energy and time is limited and I'd rather tag people who at least has a quick blurb that gives me an idea of the character, especially fantasy characters who might have features I can't tell from icon alone.

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

adding to the chorus of "skip unless they tag me first"

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

If it’s a shipping/smut meme and there’s no info, I skip. It’s frustrating when every journal I check has not a single clue if they would be interested in anything I have to offer them.