rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2023-02-02 09:54 pm

if ur breath were baited, it would smell fishy

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Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-02-07 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
my close castmate has been much more active in their other game for a few months now, while barely scrapping up ac in the one we share. i don't begrudge them getting their fun where they can, but i wish they communicated their intentions to stay or drop our game more clearly, so i knew whether to still count on them for threads or to keep making plans with them. they've failed to show up or tagged once then abandoned every single one of the threads we said we'd do.

it's getting a little exhaustive. i know they're the kind of person who likes to feel effusively welcome and get hyped over tagging, but it's really difficult to rouse enthusiasm and give them that energy anymore, when i know everything we talk about today will get apologetically handwaved tomorrow.

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-02-07 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I've been there. If it helps, just remember that it's not in your control if they're enthused or not. You can be as pumped-up as anything but it's up to them to actually act on it, so don't feel obligated if amping them is too much effort.

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-02-07 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
it typically wouldn't be, honestly, it's easy for me to be excited and positive with someone who is equally enthusiastic about threading. but when the response is consistently zero follow-up, i struggle to fake it, because i know what's coming (nothing).