socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2021-07-25 06:19 pm

Help! My rp partner hasn't invited me to play our OTP in their game! (´・ω・`)

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(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I've felt DWRP is overall far more vanilla smut-wise than a lot of other raunchier communities I've been in. I've wondered what would happen if I either invited some of the partners I got from those places here, or if for some twisted reason a whole community of extreme kink people migrated here for a game or something.

Be honest: If you could get new blood that was way into legit extreme kinks and were open about them, would you want them in?

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
So long as they write better than tlh crowd sure.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I think you only need to look at the kywtp thread to see we’re actually fairly kinky, some just pretend not to be.

[personal profile] dasher 2021-08-25 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
feel free to hit me up here, anon :)

op

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I know we have plenty of degenerates. Part of my point is, I notice a lot of it is kept on the DL, and a lot of what we consider 'extreme' in full-blown games is relatively tame compared to stuff I've seen on f-list.

The reason I'm wondering is, what would happen if said new blood turned that hidden extreme kink stuff into an open and public norm, and if current DWRPs would accept it.

Re: op

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm a degenerate myself i'd actually rather these communities be kept separate, because i think dwrp is a valuable space in the "kinky enough to be able to ask for it, but not SO kinky it's unavoidable" niche.

f-listers and their kinks are welcome to join but it'd be best if they adhered to our community standards and expectations, like warning for content and keeping extreme stuff out of public spaces like discord chats. and this is all assuming they're joining smut games with this stuff and not springing tree molestation a/b/o it on some unsuspecting SOL or horror game

da

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
not everyone would accept it because doing kink stuff in an open and public way isn't really considered acceptable no matter what community you're in. if they started coming into non-kink games or memes and doing treegate shit they'd be kicked out immediately, but if they just started their own games or joined the existing kink and sex games or stuck to TLH, they'd probably be fine.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
what kind of kinks are we talking here

bc you couldn't pay me enough to play with diapercubs or "sit on my face with your magically inflated hyper-ass and smother me with your farts" types

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not something that appeals to me personally since 1.) I'm fine with vanilla and 2.) I think it's almost impossible to keep a smut game interesting.

...But I actually think I'd prefer some of the wilder stuff over the bland dubcon, dom/sub and age gap kinks that are popular around here. At least it would be weird and different.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
i'd agree on the other two, but ageplay isn't really that popular here. outside of kywtp/niche memes, it's a big squick for a lot of people.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
YES. I need all the gods.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
you are very wrong about that.

I play two dudes over 50 and people throw their younger characters at them. dd/lg is such a typical thing for me to be approached for that I stuck up a "no thank you" on my prefs page.

da

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
that's not strictly ageplay in the kink sense, anon. unless the dd/lg play actually involves someone pretending to be a little girl, it's just a spicy age gap thing.

ageplay as a kink usually is a specific form of roleplay around being a small child, so diapers, childish behavior, talking like a child while being looked after etc.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
i personally see it as a no way more than a yes on kinklists. in certain circles i can see it being popular, but it is indeed a common squick.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
An above anon mentioned "age gap kinks" and the anon I replied to narrowed it down to ageplay, which did seem oddly specific. I wasn't aware they were so different.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I have had a very different experience than you. Do you play any older characters?

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2021-08-25 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah age gap kinks are pretty tame (usually) with just people liking the whole May-December romance aspect of it

ageplay is a specific name for a kink that's more what most people would imagine when you have to picture an extreme kink, adult babies and so on, it's a whole thing

it does make finding people who are into actual ageplay and don't just want their 50 year old dude to bang some 20 year old more difficult

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
if you play it that way in the meta-narrative and never mention it by name you're fine. so long as you don't SAY "i think character is autistic" no one's going to notice you playing them along those lines. as long as you aren't playing smut you can play your character as trans without it ever mattering to anyone else. so long as you don't fall into the ~woe is me won't some other character sit and talk about these things!~ trap no one will notice

it's literally, in my experience, the "saying it out loud" part that gets people twisted up. love, a trans & neurodivergent person who has been playing characters I see as neurodivergent and/or some flavor of GNC/genderfluid/trans for over a decade without any issues. ♥

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
I don't play smut myself but I'd be okay with people openly speaking about extreme stuff even if they joined a non-smut game. I think as long as they are told of our norms like putting up content warnings and such that people would be okay with it.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
this is incredibly shitty advice and adding a cutesy heart at the end of your comment doesn't make it any less shitty

signed, another trans & neurodivergent person who thinks you're full of crap

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
I love it! I personally don't play from it, but I'd probably play Moxxie since he's more of my type (intellectual, meant for firefight action scenes, kinky, and comedic chew toy).

Cross-canon, an interaction I've always wanted to see happen is Chidi from The Good Place trying to teach Charlie that you can't just make people good by just making them happy and that moral philosophy is necessary, and him being baffled regarding what a shitshow the Hazbin Hotel hell is.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I went on a nobushi murdering spree today since Ayaya took all my handguards.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
cranky because they flew under your radar aren't you

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I just meant that people will say they want to play something "kinky" or "taboo" and what they had in mind is just a May-December romance between consenting adults, or shipping two 15/16 year old characters without aging them up first, or shipping a character who's over 18 but who has a childish personality or appearance.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-26 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
if so, i feel for them! the gateway to conversation is always personal interests or hobbies, imo. :( i hope they can be less so missanthrope.