socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2019-08-04 10:25 am

my werewolf had a buttpuppy

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Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
if they're the kind of person who calls their characters 'traps' i dont want tags from them, tbh

even if you dont agree with the discourse around that word, its almost guaranteed that anyone who uses it like that is gonna be gross about it.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
they're definitely playing traps whether they say they are or not. heavily implying the word instead of outright using it isn't better.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, i figured. i love that particular character type because im trash but also i just enjoy exploring gender-non-conforming expressions and identities in rp, but i gotta be picky about who i play that sort of thing with. using that word is a big red flag.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 03:58 pm (UTC)(link)
'implying the word'

how does playing a character type that exists imply a transphobic term, lol

are you gonna say anyones whos playing astolfo is 'implying the word'

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
oh hi i was wondering when you'd show up

so like why do you bother topleveling to everything and never tagging anyone? that's what i'm really curious about

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
you could ask the same question about 90% of bakerstreet

also im not them, but iunno how to convince you of that

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
i do think that about 90% of bakerstreet but these ocs are so many and so clearly pointed i always wonder. like if no one's tagging the third one why would they tag the eighth who by the way is exactly the same just with a different pb

actually no i lied there are two types, edgy-ultraviolence and obviously-not-a-trap-because-that'd-be-problematic-but-you-know-what-you're-looking-at-here. and none of them ever do anything despite 1-3 of them being on almost every meme. if it was that one kylo ren or those two same comics guys then okay whatever but it's so varied and yet the same that i'm almost falling into arg habits and looking for ciphers at this point lmao

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 06:22 pm (UTC)(link)
ive seen both of those types reply to people tagging them tho. and you're the one that keeps bringing a slur into this.

i think you just saw something you didn't like and got fixated on it.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-10 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
bruh

the character type isn't problematic it's the word itself and what it implies.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-10 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
i think they meant some of their usernames. one of their accounts is called "firetrapped"

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
what's wrong with the word trap? and what other word should you use for this character type?

genuinely curious.

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
at best, it just has nasty implications about gender-non-conforming people, at worse, the attitude behind it has lead to the actual deaths of irl trans people. it started out as a definite slur against trans women and crossdressers on 4chan, after all, before it got into the fandom lexicon.

as far as alternative terms, if we're talking japanese characters, there's otokonoko and jousou. the first has somewhat fetish-y connotations and is largely associated with porn (equivalent to "sissy" over here in the same context" where as jousou just means male crossdresser (the word literally translates to "wearing woman"). if you want something less weeby, crossdresser is a term anyone can understand at this point and doesn't really need further details.

some japanese characters have complicated gender identities associated with their crossdressing and aren't just strictly male or trans female, and that's generally called "x-gender" but you're not going to see a lot of crossdressing characters this complicated in most weeb-adjacent media.

+1

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
mmm yeah sure do love the 'are traps gay' debate that boils down to "i'm sexually attracted to this person and therefore their gender identity depends on my sexual orientation and not the other way around"

for pedantry it's josou not jousou but otherwise A+ explanation

Re: VENTING GOES HERE

(Anonymous) 2019-08-09 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
adding to what anon above said, the word trap comes from, well, "it's a trap" which comes from the idea that crossdressers and/or trans people are trying to "trick you"