rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2018-10-20 10:50 pm

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(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
Throwback to when I was so paranoid, I bailed on my dream cr (other half of my otp, my character’s ~~eternal partner~~) because I had bad dreams, wah, and was scared it was my stalker who watched the show with me.

This is extra ridiculous because I tagged them first on bakerstreet. How the heck could it be them?

Too embarrassed to contact them now after getting their hopes up and then dashing away (and I was very slow midway through too, adjusting to work....).

inb4 get professional help: can’t, limited freedom, guardians don’t approve, country’s mental health system is antiquated, social stigma of mental illness is all sad, scary ~crazy people~ would pretty much not be able to get a job.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 08:52 am (UTC)(link)
do you still have this issue with paranoia, anon? or was this a one-time thing?

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 08:53 am (UTC)(link)
We're already friends!!

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 09:02 am (UTC)(link)
in all seriousness, just try to get in on the ground floor of something getting popular. post around memes, tag out to canonmates, pm and friend people on plurk. you'll end up with a lot of overlap.

take the sports anime hype a while back. if you were into basketball anime and you friended people from that fandom, you could've easily jumped to volleyball anime and bike anime and baseball anime together. same with the idol hype, a fair amount of popular movies, and young adult-aimed tv series.

the main thing is being willing to hop from canon to canon and not getting left behind in the process because a fair amount of them are just fandom friends with each other and the groups fluctuate a lot.

Re: https://enablemeplz.dreamwidth.org/14699.html

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 10:25 am (UTC)(link)
EMP ACTIVATED /sombra voice
nitropalms: (oh fuck they're hot)

mha - bakugou ♀ x canonmates

[personal profile] nitropalms 2018-10-28 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, I made this journal a while ago and have mostly been too shy to tag out on memes because not everyone is down for genderswaps/cisswaps/rule 63s but I would like to try her more so here's some categories of stuff I want to try!!

-Gen stuff where I voicetest and it just involves general shenanigans on the UA campus.
-Gen stuff involving some sort of universe crossing over where people used to standard Bakugou deal with the fact that there exists a female Bakugou out there in the universe.
-Shippy stuff of either super tsundere or secretly lovey-dovey nature

... or this group of stuff that should probably be under kinks you want to play:
-bakugou topping the hell out of her partner
-bakugou's partner finding her weak spot and teasing her mercilessly until she's a puddle
-some revenge-porn aspect of someone who gets no respect from bakugou taking advantage of her sexually through some sort of scenario/quirk/etc

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 11:50 am (UTC)(link)
you could still try contacting them again! you don't have to give the absurd paranoia explanation, just say work/real life ate you and you dropped the ball hard on rp in general for a while. just apologzie and say you'd like to pick the thread back up or start something new if they don't mind. if they're still into it and were enjoying the thread then i'm sure they'd be just as excited to get back into it.

Re: mha - bakugou ♀ x canonmates

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 12:13 pm (UTC)(link)
wait this character is a girl...

Re: mha - bakugou ♀ x canonmates

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
it's a rule 63 journal, anon

Re: mha - bakugou ♀ x canonmates

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
canon bakugou is a guy, they're playing an au.

+1000

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
you can't play out rape, incest, or underage smut in most gen games without getting judged, but it's always been that way since even before the livejournal move. tons of people have played out all 3 in smut games, memes, and psls and have never gotten so much as a side-eye because:

1) they were smart and knew to only play out that stuff in appropriate venues
2) don't pressure people who aren't into it into playing it
3) don't sound like socially stunted creeps huffing over how hot half-naked 14 year olds or rape is 24/7 on their plurks or are otherwise off-putting ooc

the people who get wanked on in smut games for this but are normal ooc are generally people with grudgewankers who latch onto kinkshaming as a convenient excuse to stir up shit. don't assume that it's genuine pearlclutching when it's more likely a convenient vehicle for someone to vent their butthurt over getting turned down for a thread or jealousy over another character being more popular than theirs.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
people have played from sweet pool in sex games without wank before anon

Re: sheer veneer of purely cosmetic anonymity

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 02:06 pm (UTC)(link)
try contacting them again! like the other anon mentioned, don't bring up the paranoia, just that you were really busy but you'd like to give threading another shot if they're still interested.

the worst that can happen is they'll turn you down.

Re: FATE/

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
their design or just their art?

Re: GAME MODS, DO YOU EVER HAVE PLAYERS COMING TO YOU ABOUT NOT HAVING IDEAS?

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
it would be a bad idea for the general case, both because it means lazier players will decide they're going to rely on you to tell them what they should be doing for an event and because no matter how much handholding you offer, it's never going to be enough. the sort of people who flop around uselessly and whine that they don't know what to dooooooooooo every event will still do that, because the ideas you offer won't be exactly what they're looking for, and the people who actually are capable of creativity might, depending on your wording of your suggestions, feel like they're required to do the things you suggested instead of implementing their own ideas.

on the other hand, if you have a player who comes to you with something they have in mind but aren't sure how to implement, there's no harm in giving them some help/pointing them in the right direction.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
app a different character to start with, then app the spoiler character once enough time has passed to pull them from the point you actually want to play from.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
/exudes guilty flake energy because i really wanna rp but rl keeps getting in the way

forgive me, people i flaked on, i still think your characters are very qt after all this time!!!

Re: +1000

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
What irks me about underage is...people's need to play up the ages. When I do it, it's just two folks messing around, when the other party makes it specifically about how young/old the other party is I just kind of have to stop right the fuck there.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm a passive aggressive flake

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
gasps

why, anon?

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao it would be cool if you didn't describe something that happens to people in real time and ruins their life as "vanilla". i don't care about your kinks or what you get off on, but why would you think to describe something like rape as "vanilla"?

people don't get cannibalized, or whatever monster kink that isn't "vanilla" irl at large numbers. it isn't just "anti" culture, it's the fact that no offense, you have a responsibility to be respectful about playing out things that have traumatized actual people you might even know.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah there was a reason why i put it in quotation marks, which you apparently missed because you're incapable of reading nuance. try taking it down about twenty notches, you look like a reactionary idiot.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)
you used the word "apeshit" to describe how people react to it, which does a damn good job at implying that you think it's some level of tame to start with. you want to argue for nuance? try thinking about how you word shit next time, christ.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 06:08 pm (UTC)(link)
and yet no one overreacted except you. hm, i wonder why that is.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
so like, is tsukihime worth getting into now, or should people wait for the remake?

the main game hasn't aged that well, art wise, and i remember the translation not being that great in terms of writing, and apparently melty blood's remakes added a bunch of bullshit and removed the original storyline...

idk, are there enough people into nasuverse stuff beyond fate that can comment?