you can't play out rape, incest, or underage smut in most gen games without getting judged, but it's always been that way since even before the livejournal move. tons of people have played out all 3 in smut games, memes, and psls and have never gotten so much as a side-eye because:
1) they were smart and knew to only play out that stuff in appropriate venues 2) don't pressure people who aren't into it into playing it 3) don't sound like socially stunted creeps huffing over how hot half-naked 14 year olds or rape is 24/7 on their plurks or are otherwise off-putting ooc
the people who get wanked on in smut games for this but are normal ooc are generally people with grudgewankers who latch onto kinkshaming as a convenient excuse to stir up shit. don't assume that it's genuine pearlclutching when it's more likely a convenient vehicle for someone to vent their butthurt over getting turned down for a thread or jealousy over another character being more popular than theirs.
+1000
1) they were smart and knew to only play out that stuff in appropriate venues
2) don't pressure people who aren't into it into playing it
3) don't sound like socially stunted creeps huffing over how hot half-naked 14 year olds or rape is 24/7 on their plurks or are otherwise off-putting ooc
the people who get wanked on in smut games for this but are normal ooc are generally people with grudgewankers who latch onto kinkshaming as a convenient excuse to stir up shit. don't assume that it's genuine pearlclutching when it's more likely a convenient vehicle for someone to vent their butthurt over getting turned down for a thread or jealousy over another character being more popular than theirs.