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and i never once said it was. you're very quick to jump from someone suggesting and possibly making an argument for something to forcing someone to do something. i've said multiple times in this that if they or anyone wants to do something for whatever reason, just be upfront with the whys. no one expects 'i was molested once so no' as an actual reason. all you need is 'i don't like it.' my overall nitpickiness comes from trying to validate it beyond preference when the attempts to do so don't actually line up. that's it. they even conceded to leaving out the goddess option because in the end, it was preference over validity. just be upfront with it.

outside of that, it was mostly just pointing out that you can do what you want, but there's already a consensual game all about consent that's available. that you can play kinks in. just not dubcon/noncon. which is what this is shaping up to be and that's why i pointed it out.

goddamn, you all are so salty for wank and being righteous over shit. take a breather.

I flaked out on you twice and it wasn't your fault, I'm sorry. I made a really dumb mistake and prioritized rp stuff I was having way less fun with over our psl. I should've talked to you about it instead of disappearing again but it's way too late now.

I'm sure I must've burned my bridges with you because I made promises I didn't follow through on so I'm not going to try contacting you again, but I honestly did really like what we had planned and what we'd threaded. I hope you've been able to find someone more reliable to play with you.

this thread is full of the most generic shit. do you actually know what missed connections are supposed to be

they've turned it into 'letters i'll never send', because people are dumb.

man I'd love to find somewhere decent to play Miranda, even if it's just meme shit

no one ever wants to out themselves on an anoncomm. it was doomed from the start.

That movie is my guilty pleasure like hello.

some people do. at least one person actually put out what the thread was for. and you can still be sort of vague, but obvious to whoever you're speaking to (hence the 'this will out me to xxxx' comments). it just started off with someone not doing it right and people fell in line.

I'd definitely consider a game like this

whiners to go wankgate.

You sound like someone I played with a few years ago, anon. I think they'd appreciate a PM just saying you miss them or something, or even just an explanation. I know I would've liked one from my old partner.

If it was me you were looking for, I dropped because the dynamic seemed to be going sideways and I wasn't sure that I wanted to pursue it any further. I loved your writing and your characterization was really fascinating, but real life landed me a plate of business to deal with, so I took it as a good place to wind things up. I'm sorry about that.

I wouldn't mind trying again if you don't mind if we hash a bit more out ahead of time. I would prefer a little bit less of a slow build, and I can rejig my character a bit for that if that helps.

I really enjoyed our meme and PSL before you dropped it. I found out later you were doing another PSL with someone else and I'm guessing it was more your scene than ours was...and that's okay. I was hurt about it at the time and I really would've appreciated a note instead of you just disappearing, especially when I was really just afraid something had happened to YOU. Anyway, I hope you're having fun wherever you are and thanks for threading with me when you did. It was fun.

I'd be down for playing the younger party! pm ~6229.

I'd say that if you wanted to build that, it'd be better just to build it up, and then answer questions with that particular mod-hat firm but generally friendly voice that the successful ones manage, regardless of the vitriol. Haters seem to really hate on sex games these days. We're backsliding to the days of LJ all over again, but with more elderly apathy in the mix.

If you've been gone for a while, Wankgate got significantly stricter rules (partly self-imposed, partly cause Denise sent another email). Rpanons has always been the less moderated one tbh, so people put all the blatantly hateful stuff here.

Sheryl, Deku, Elsa, Alluka and Yuto as well to add to the list above. Just rather not retype what's already mentioned.

anyone ever buy a subscription to a porn site? worth it? tired of dodgy sites when i want to watch something

we wrote a pretty epic smut thread in the old lj love hotel days. no idea who you were, but you played a canon mate i never expected to see. it was really kinky and hit all my kinks plus some ones i never thought of. i wish we had gotten to the other kinks we discussed.

nah.

anyone who pays for porn in this day and age is an idiot.

> my overall nitpickiness comes from trying to validate it beyond preference

So do you not get how presumptuous and tone-deaf that is, or..?

> because in the end, it was preference over validity

Ho-ly fuck. Asked and answered.

You know, I read OP's original post and her replies again and I don't see someone being unclear about her intentions at all.
In fact, what I see is someone very politely making it clear what they want:

Quoting from her second post(http://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/66429.html?thread=207687037#cmt207687037)

>As for the rest, personally I don't have issues with noncon in general as a kink, but I'd like it to have a game vibe where characters feel safe on the sexual end of things because the only threat is the monsters.

>The game would be meant more for the latter [Characters who would leave if they thought drugs and/or coercion were involved]. If some characters don't fit, there are fortunately other options of sex games out there with different setups. Right now, though, there don't seem to be many cuddle/consent-based games with sources of conflict.

[bolding mine]

That's really fucking upfront, unless you're the type of person who mistakes manners for weaknesses that can be used to wheedle and argue your way into getting what you're after.

Oh, and for fun, you wrote:
>outside of that, it was mostly just pointing out that you can do what you want, but there's already a consensual game all about consent that's available. that you can play kinks in. just not dubcon/noncon. which is what this is shaping up to be and that's why i pointed it out.

From the same post I linked, from OP:

>instead of using aphros I'd have it be like Eudio

But thanks for pointing out the obvious. As for what this game was "shaping up to be", go read the premise again, with a bit less of a boner for what you want it to be instead of what it is. Here, I'll even help you, from the OP:

>tl;dr summary

- a fantasy (science fantasy?) consent-based game with lots of SOL and a little conflict, where characters fight the occasional monster attack with their emoooshuns.

...you're threading with this person and remember why you backed off from threading with them for a while. Like, they're not bad but you just keep having moments where you realize you both are reading things just slightly differently so your characters keep misunderstanding each other a bit for no good reason.

congratulations on outdoing me with essays.

and none of that actually counted for what i was saying. your reading comprehension is terrible. please quit while you're ahead.

that's frustrating. one of those times when "our writing styles don't mesh," is the truth.

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