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lmao the hate you're getting.

this has happened to me before so I know how it feels. sucks. i'd rather have them tell me straight up its getting boring so I can offer something better or just stop hoping.

idk who that is but this sounds good, deets?

if you're still looking, drop me a pm!

ok sans

i had someone once literally tell me, in exact words, that they'd be totally fine with me critting them for anything. we were castmates.

i critted them once. it was fair crit, imo. no personal attacks and i gave them tips on how to improve.

i never heard the end of the whining and at some point they grudgewanked the shit out of me. (i always fly under the radar and they didn't hide their typing style so i knew it was them.)

being honest without anonymous is a risk.

this pretty much. it's not at all wrong to want to play only ships. i mostly play just for ships. but if you don't communicate this and then get pissy at the other person for not wanting to ship, that's... the definition of entitlement.

and it would never even get off the ground, because this is the attitude of literally everyone in dw these days. oh, i'd better hang back to see if this goes anywhere! which inevitably means nothing ever goes anywhere.

Oh my god. Did you seriously just try to call me on being defensive and write that whole defensive essay? Nobody's saying criticism is bad but plenty of people in this thread were able to point out problems or give suggestions politely. Some of the others were whiny, entitled, kink-pushy, or salty in how they said it and there's no reason they couldn't have done it as politely as the others. Just because they weren't as bad as the most toxic wankers in RP doesn't mean they were good about it.

Games are dying because people don't join up right away but games aren't being made in the first place because lots of people in the hobby are annoying to deal with on a regular basis and just aren't worth making them for. They don't need to be big name wankers to be that way. They just have to be the low grade toxic types that blame everyone else for being offended when they word everything they say horribly.

Ignoring all that, if you're the same anon that wrote that other angry essay, too, you really need to touch grass. Even if you're not and you only wrote this essay, you need to touch grass. You reek of overinvestment.

actually, there are prostate orgasms. they're not the same as an ejaculatory orgasm and don't usually result in ejaculation. it's more akin to how a woman orgasms, more "full body". they take a lot longer to reach and sometimes require a little body training to get into/get right.

the prostate also isn't extremely deep in the body and isn't usually hit by an erect dick, not directly anyway.

op, do a little physiological research in addition to watching some amateur gay porn and maybe reading some, too. avoid uke/seme stereotypes, and you should do ok.

Quite frankly, the last thread we wrote together was one of the worst I'd ever written. It was trite, the characters were horribly OOC, it did nothing to move our ongoing plot forward, and I get the feeling you wanted my character to fall for yours after having sex with them once (which was why I think you dropped the thread after mine didn't say so).

I liked our AU and the plot we had going, but this was the nail in the coffin; I am not going to tag or pm you to continue this story. I doubt you'll have the initiative to tag or pm me to continue this plot, and I'm going to be completely fine with it.

I deeply regret not realizing you just wanted to ship our characters, instead of writing adventures with shipping as the second priority.

yeah seems a little disproportionate but anons gonna anon what can you do

hell i'd be happy if they just left me a "hey i don't know how to continue mind if we stop here" sort of deal

just because you've had the experience, don't assume that the people you're talking to are ones who do it. the entire reason this exchange got abrasive was over your assumptions. op came across as very whiny and poor me. it's a bad attitude to have in rp regardless of what experiences you've had.

well gee, mom. i'm sorry i didn't sugar coat my suggestions/advice. i'll be sure to slather on the lotion so i don't get the hose again next time. none of the ones that i said were salty or kink pushy. sure, there were encouraging buttpatty ones (which isn't a bad thing, don't go putting words in my mouth), but i shouldn't have to coddle someone with a suggestion on an anon comm over a game they stated that they likely weren't going to make and might hand off to someone else. in which case, the aspect of them not even liking dubcon/noncon becomes irrelevant, since maybe whoever picks it up wouldn't mind and hey, there you go. the supposed mod got defensive over the ideas, which is fine, but they kept trying to justify it as a necessity, when it wasn't. it was just preference. don't say one thing and mean another. that's shitty mod communication and likely wouldn't go over well in a game anyway.

i really wish people would learn what things are. i use words to describe how i feel and what i mean. would you rather i just limit it to 'lmao w/e i do what i want no you'? articulation shouldn't be proof of overinvestment. it just means i have things to say and i'm saying them. like, wow. sorry for writing in a writing hobby on a comm about other people's writing. didn't mean to wear out your eyes.

if you want to keep thinking that's why games aren't being made, you go ahead. but games are still being made, and some of them even keep going on, contrary to your sensitivity to people not agreeing with you. and try using another word, because toxic isn't the right one. that's like trying to throw triggered and problematic around. it's an actual thing. don't water it down with 'i object to this, therefor it's toxic.'

or not. i'm just overinvested, after all. and a toxic tittybaby that isn't allowed an opinion because potential mods are marshmallows.

You play an incredibly popular character and, every time I see that character being played somewhere else, I just think of your version and how I miss playing our ship.

I'm sorry I couldn't be there for you in your time of need. All my life, I've been the person people lean on and it drove me nuts for a while. I couldn't be that support for you, because of this. I haven't spoken with you in a while, but it wasn't your fault. It's mine.

I've been thinking of just messaging you again, to continue what we had written, but I don't know if we're still ok or if I even deserve to contact you again.

yep. i never take anyone at their word anymore when they say they're completely open to crit.

spoiler: they never fucking are.

drown in a vat of stagnant semen you worthless quim

It's been months since we last communicated. You were getting your computer fixed, so we haven't been able to talk again.

I'm not upset, and I've accepted that there's a chance our psl's will never get finished. But, I still want to give a proper goodbye.

I don't think I appreciated our partnership like I should have. I feel more confident as a writer, because of the enthusiasm you had for our things. If you ever returned, I would be more than happy to continue what we had.

I'm not bitter that you abruptly ended our psl, deleted your journal, and revoked access from your journal to mine. You were going through some rough things, when we last talked.

I revoked access from my journal to yours, to support your choice and allow you to move forward with a clean severance.

If you're reading this, I just want to wish you well. Thanks for the feels.

i guess that's better than telling someone to shoot themselves

this reminds me of that thread we had in the last(?) rpa post where an anon had an insecurity meltdown and bawleeted everything/cut off their partner out of nowhere

you don't happen to have a tumblr, do you?

I don't, I just dwrp.

play that fucky/fuckin music, white boy.

oh, i feel a little better for you then. that anon was fucking nuts

I read that, and I feel you man.

an anon made me remember this, does dw notify you when you've been removed from a community or someone's friends list? i've got some journals and old museboxes that i want to start using again, but they've been joined or friended by someone i haven't talked to in a couple years

normally i wouldn't give a damn, but this is the sort of unstable person who would have a gigantic fit if they saw a notice pop up in their inbox. i don't want their eye back on me

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