rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2016-06-13 06:38 pm

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
I wish you were there for me in one of my last matches. I was hiding behind a Reinhardt with my heal stream up and the opposing teams's Reinhardt charged at us. I figure, great, mine's health is full, the other one is at half, mine will survive the initial blow and with my support he'll take the enemy out.

NOPE.

Fucker side steps and lets the other Reinhardt smush me against a wall instead.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm only a man in a funny machine, looking for special things and sodomy.

Re: Resident Evil

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
phase is puncheverything on plurk, they played a jill and a chris too (i think?)

infamous republican whose meltdown in 2012 over obama's reelection sparked the AMERICA IS DEEEEAD meme, they had another meltdown last year when the supreme court legalized gay marriage and that one pretty much torpedoed any chance they had of rping in this hobby again

they haven't touched their plurk since january so they're either gone or they adopted a new alias

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not accusing people of sneaking, and you're right that a preference list helps, but in the absence of one (I've never made one, usually because I'm so indecisive on kinklists an I always feel like I'm forgetting one so I'd rather ass on the stress), one shouldn't assume noncon/dubcon is okay by default, and sometimes it feels like a lot of people DO, sneaky or not.
wankgator: (i glances)

[personal profile] wankgator 2016-06-16 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
Hey (shipper) anons, can you help me perfect this meme? Or let me know if it's dumb and a waste of everyone's time?

Some people on my timeline have been craving ships lately so I thought I'd try this. Should I add anything? Remove anything? Scrap the whole thing? Let me know what you think!

Thanks in advance.
footings: (pic#10354559)

[personal profile] footings 2016-06-16 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'll probably throw Lance up on the crosscheck tdm!

Re: GAME IDEAS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
That's a good idea, anon. Thank you.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
honestly, at this point i just have to echo everyone else in here and say communicate with them, it's been multiple scenes now with the same result so clearly you two aren't on the same page somewhere. if they're fishing for dubcon/noncon shame on them, but if you didn't tell them no and it's not on your permissions post anywhere i can see how this kind of situation might happen. if people don't see a no, they hope for a maybe

you're not melting down over it so you've already got a leg up on most of us who get into these situations. just pm them, don't leave any room for ambiguity and let come what may. worst case scenario, you two are incompatible and you move on. it's tough but better than wasting another week of replies on a scene that won't give either of you what you want, no?

PERSONA 5

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
game looks really great so far. i'm excited for it.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
needs options for asexual biromantics!

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
It's still obviously a communication issue going on here because one of two things is likely going on here:

1. RP partner didn't really want to play out smut and was too afraid to say no
2. RP partner is good with smut, but didn't say that it would need buildup over multiple threads or noncon/dubcon being involved. Even in memes sometimes characters need more buildup and players talk about assumed CR to skip that stuff.
3. While not as likely, it could be possible the characters don't mesh well together after all.

That's what the issue here is. OP is saying RP partner agreed to smut. OP obviously assumed it was that thread but RP partner failed to communicate or was too afraid to say what they really did or did not want.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
if this isn't the title of kayvin's plurk, it ought to be

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
i don't have any useful critique, but ooh this is relevant to my interests

Re: KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Anon, how is it that we're two sides of the same coin?

Any preference for the type of male?

+1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
there has to be mutual interest, or it's dub or noncon. that's how it works

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
rework it to take place in congress

Re: Gauging Interest on a Meme Idea

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
And i guess asians dont exist either

+1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
it's not people "sneaking" it, it's people tagging me for smut with setups that make my character have to be an aggressor or a creep to make the smut happen. they're assuming by default that i'll be okay with playing dubcon or noncon, and they shouldn't.

Re: Gauging Interest on a Meme Idea

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
if anyone wants to play asian politics they'll just go find a naruto player

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
if you don't say flat-out you're not interested in dubcon/noncon you don't have any room to whine when this happens

what part of "people aren't mind readers" is so hard to understand in this hobby?

da

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
because rapekink shouldn't be something that defaults to ok? are you fucking kidding me?

you're right, people aren't mindreaders, but holy shit, you should not just assume strangers are okay with rape scenarios, you mental midget

+100000

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
jesus christ

Re: KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY

(Anonymous) 2016-06-16 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
m/m preferred.
wankgator: sandile / meguroko + munna [pokemon] (got some deets)

[personal profile] wankgator 2016-06-16 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
Instructions unclear, changed meme into a voting meme where characters vote for Hillary or Trump to become the next US president. #SorryBernouts
shotgunsakimbo: (well i know what you mean)

[personal profile] shotgunsakimbo 2016-06-16 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
Hello, I'm part of the Blizzard "Shit Life Choices" Antagonists group. I'm currently just poking around memes as I get a better handle on dis jerk's voice, and might consider a game after the comic comes out (and I have the time). Feel free to hit me up for stuff!