rpanons | Thankee sai

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lmao yeah wanting compliments at a place designated for getting compliments is soooo desperate

(sorry 2 say you're dumb)

sorry your self-esteem is so low you need to beg people to give you compliments in the first place :(

1. it's not begging if there's a meme for it
2. only people with low self-esteem like compliments now??
3. you're autistic

boom roasted

This is just sad.

:,(

this just in: not everyone is you and has your confidence. it'd be really nice if they were but the world doesn't work that way so maybe instead of further tearing their self-esteem down here, on the chance they frequent anoncomm, and trying to invalidate what positive regard they receive on a love meme, you could, i don't know, come up with a productive solution.

HAHAHAHAHAHA

If someone wants to pay me a compliment that's lovely and I'll be flattered, but I can't see going around asking for handouts.

How can anyone feel really good about compliments they had to ask someone to give them anyway?

but you're not asking for them

you're making a post and giving people the option to give them to you

You're asking for them by posting, dipshit.

no I'm demanding for them

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It's embarrassing. Earn your compliments the old-fashioned way. Don't perch in a meme making puppy eyes at everyone who passes.

It's pretty pathetic.

there's not many places established anywhere to actually compliment people, though

I'm not going to IM anyone just because I liked their playing and wanted to say so for no reason

(also if people are giving you compliments in the first place, you must have earned them somehow)

There... has to be an established place to compliment people? You guys are socially cripple in the worst way possible.

And no they're giving you "compliments" so you'll be compelled to give them "compliments" in their threads too! dlkddldk LOVE YOUR PORTRAYAL! BEST EVERRRR <3333

Fuck you idiots.

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this is one of the saddest comments i've ever seen. "it's hard for me to get compliments because normally people don't feel like randomly complimenting me (because this is supposed to be something that just happens naturally and isn't forced), so i'll just post to a meme dedicated to that so they don't feel as unprompted about it! now they have a REASON to pat my delicate butt!!!"

i just imagine you posting to it and slowly biting your nails off as you hang on the edge waiting for someone, just anyone, to pay you some attention.

I'm not going to IM anyone just because I liked their playing and wanted to say so for no reason

Why not? I do and it makes the other person's day. That's reason enough for me.

okay, then don't IM them

leave a complimentary comment on their personal HMD post or send them a PM or compliment them when they post to a general HMD meme

there are plenty of places where you can leave someone a compliment without a fucking love meme that's all just people with their hands out begging, jfc

Shoot them a PM? That's what I do, and the other player usually appreciates it.

It's not that hard, man.

what world do you live in where you need established places or reasons to give someone a compliment...

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(Anonymous) - 2012-03-01 22:49 (UTC) - Expand

If you have to urge people to compliment you by posting in a meme then yeah... that's desperate.

spend a minute putting a list of your characters into a post
post it
link to it on plurk

wow yeah that's urging people, I feel like such a fool

Yeah, basically. But since you're visibly upset I'd recommend going to the love meme so someone can lick your ass reassuringly.

yes

urging is exactly what that is. that is basically yelling to everyone around you that you are seeking solicited buttpats.

That's basically hammering a sign on to a bulletin board that says "PLEASE. COMPLIMENT ME."

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