rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2012-02-22 10:08 pm

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threshprinceoffuckyou: (in hell's kitchen)

- Fuck you, that's why.

[personal profile] threshprinceoffuckyou 2012-03-02 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
HEY KIDS. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS? IT'S TIIIIIME FOR A LESSON IN BASIC RP DECENCY!

Today's episode: What not to do when you disagree with a person's characterization!

Sally is browsing her game's f-list (or this might not even be her game, which makes it doubly as creepy) when she chances upon Someone's character who they incredibly disagree with! What should Sally do?

Option A: Sally clicks the character's journal. Oh boy! What is this she found? An HMD? Good God All-mighty, I better leave a criticism so the mun could properly assess her interpretation and improve upon her RPing!

GOOD WORK, SALLY. YOU SURE DO HAVE AN IDEA OF BASIC COMMON SENSE.

Option B: Sally, for some unfathomable reason, goes to Annoncomm and puts up with all the tedious scrolling and anonymity to basically shit on the character she doesn't like.

OH NO, SALLY. BAD SALLY. DON'T BE AN ASSHAT SALLY. Sally, don't let that mun scour into the depths of the asscracks of annoncomm to find that you disagree with their character!


Mocking aside. It is totally cool to disagree with an interpretation! Really, it is. Calling someone terrible is incredibly rude, but okay, that's easy to shrug off if that's your opinion.

But saying Amanda has an ego?

Give me a link, a screencap, or whatever where Amanda has been nothing but sweet and welcoming and open to crit and I will shut the fuck up.

You are acting like Amanda is the scourge of DWRP, every fucking time, like it's a stupid ritual you all have when all she wants is crit, not a lot of bashing in annoncomm. Some crit. Any crit. Give her crit! SHE LISTENS, OKAY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO VENT IN THIS PLACE.

Edit: For the record, I adore her Eridan.
Edited 2012-03-02 00:26 (UTC)
wakingsavior: (let's do this)

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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Sassy Gay Moirail always wins.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
you real mad
threshprinceoffuckyou: (to see my first kiss)

[personal profile] threshprinceoffuckyou 2012-03-02 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
OF COURSE I'M MAD.

Anons are shitting on my friend on this godforsaken community and she is legitimately bothered by it, do you think I'm just going to sit there and just bombard her with cozies and ignore the problem?

No. And look at this. I've stated my stance and all I got is this sudden flood of LOL YOU GRAMMAR WRONG and LOL YOU REAL MAD and tbh I don't really give a shit! I'm just worried about her.

tl;dr LEAVE AMANDA ALONE.

da

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
For the record, I adore her Eridan.

how redundant is it to say a thing like that after whiteknighting and brownnosing so hard

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
I mean I don't even know this Eridan or Karkat, I'm just watching the madness go down.
wakingsavior: (Default)

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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, because sticking up for one's friends is something to be ashamed of. Heaven forbid she should make sure that she actually SAYS that she adores Amanda's Eridan.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
"minus fuck you, that's why"
So you're subtracting "fuck you, that's why".

...okay, I'm gonna need someone to gimme a TI-83 to figure this one out.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Trying too hard.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
People like you are why "you mad" is a thing.
wakingsavior: (serious badass)

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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
aaaand people like YOU are why anoncomm is generally considered to be a cesspit.

Thanks for keeping my faith in anoncomm's worthlessness alive.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
LMFAO

lmfao geez

(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
above anons are taking this too seriously

it's hilarious to watch

/popcorn

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
embarrassing.
wakingsavior: (not impressed)

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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
the amount of vitrol being spewed at a legitimately nice person over playing pretend on the internet?

Yes. Yes it is, embarrassing.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
i like her eridan too but you need to sit

the fuck

down.
wakingsavior: (i'll take you down)

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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 07:04 am (UTC)(link)
why?

I mean, the first part is obviously meant to be facetious (if accurate), and they're not the only one who is getting really sick of all the hate being piled on Amanda - not just her Eridan, but Amanda herself.

So... why shouldn't she be kind of pissed?

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
do you even know the definition of the word creepy? browsing other games hardly qualifies
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[personal profile] wakingsavior 2012-03-02 06:54 am (UTC)(link)
it's less "browsing" and more "being so affronted by the characterization of a character/cast you aren't even in, in a GAME you aren't even in, that you have to hate on them on anoncomm" that's creepy.

Just throwing that out there.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
how the hell is it 'creepy' to have a problem with the way someone is played in your own game

your castmates effect you

if your castmates are terrible you're going to find them terrible and have a problem with it

it's not 'creepy' at all

but then again your replies here make you out to be a massive sperglord so i don't expect any rational reply from you

you will always be remembered as the idiot karkat-mun who freaked out in an embarrassing shrieking explosion of whiteknighting

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
ok i read it wrong it was someone else's game but the question still stands

how is it creepy to think someone's shitty characterization is shitty

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 11:08 am (UTC)(link)
It is perfectly all right for you two to be unhappy with your friend being wanked on, it's okay for you guys to tell anons to use an HMD when one is clearly available for critting her, and it's fine for you to ask for evidence for crit that anons have made.

What is not okay is to give anons who like wank stirring exactly what they wanted when they started this thread and do it in the name of your friend. Anons who like wank love confrontation of an angry nature in particular and that is exactly what you're giving these anons. You are, essentially, feeding them. They don't care about the points you're making at all, no matter how valid they are, because the way you're making your points is what they're more interested in. You are fighting them with while clearly upset and they LOVE that.

What this means to these same anons is that while you're arguing upset you are going to keep arguing while upset and give them more to work with. You really need to understand that if you address these kinds of anons calmly they tend to dissipate because there's nothing left for them to screw around with.

Also, yes, this does make your friend look bad in a few ways because her not addressing this problem will unfortunately, and probably unfairly (I don't know Amanda so I can't say for sure), will make it seem like the criticism against her is more valid since she's not saying anyone is wrong in what they're thinking about her. It's seen as an admission that she knows she's messing up and can't argue against it since there's no argument for her to make. Again, this is pretty unfair, but that's the way it's seen. Also, you two reacting with vitriol that's not well thought out and presented properly will just remind people of big name wankers whose friends go out to defend them with the intent to just hurt whoever is attacking their friend instead of addressing any real problems or concerns that someone has come up with. And insulting people with complaints won't make them feel like they should be on your side. Yeah, there are jerks in here, but anyone else who wasn't a jerk who also agrees with anon's point but has yet to give crit on the HMD (and there are a lot of reasons they might not have) may also feel insulted and will feel like hey maybe Amanda deserves some of this because her friends are being jerks too. And you know what? It is absolutely not cool of you to make your friend look worse than they are.

You can defend her, but the way you're doing it is going to just keep causing problems.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-02 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I think they finally figured it out, but this needed to be said anyway.