socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2025-02-01 09:20 am

we can cuddle and have deep convos about our trauma

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 01:15 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao literally everyone does this (form opinions on whether someone is a reliable tagger.) whether someone decides to input those thoughts into a personal spreadsheet doesn't impact you in the slightest. you won't get a 'performance review' for your tagging reliability or lack thereof bc it's not about you at all

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
as long as we continue immediately shooting down the idea of sharing these spreadsheets, which we should - for all the reasons anons already listed on this post when someone suggested that

+1

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 01:36 pm (UTC)(link)
having a spreadsheet (or whatever other personal method of tracking and forming opinions) is fine. it's value neutral. sharing a spreadsheet like that is not fine and it's a bad idea. it's literally that simple

+2

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Considering anons have a storied history of omitting critical details when accusing players of being irresponsible/flaky/cliquey as recently as the last post, these spreadsheets are going to be subjective anyway and useful only to the person who made them

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
The anon who kept the spreadsheet nixed the idea of sharing names themselves and made it clear they dont want to put anyone on blast

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

who are these people even trying to accuse? keep fighting that strawman, I guess.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It's clear people are letting their insecurities get the best of them. Thread trackers have been around for years. As someone who uses thread trackers another reason why I don't share them is because they're character dependent. I noticed an interesting trend between my blond, blue eyed guy versus my brunette, brown eyed guy: blondie got more tags overall, but brunette had longer threads and repeat customers.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
+1 to the insecurity thing. knowing whether or not people don't tag starters or whatever is helpful for those of us who tend to write starters. if someone notes that down for themselves, it's not a value judgment about whoever ghosted them; it means nothing more than "don't tag this person if you don't want to get ghosted again."

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
it isn't an accusation

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/98018.html?thread=281883362#cmt281883362

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
+1 y'all literally asked them to share it and they rightly censored it because wtf kind of request is that, don't pretend like this concern is coming out of nowhere

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
tbf there was a second spreadsheet anon who commented that they were toying with the idea of posting names

but they got shot down, as mentioned in this thread

so yeah basically nothing has actually happened yet and anxiety anons can settle down a bit

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2025-02-13 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
yes i pointed that out