Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

[socksuke_uchiha]

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[(Anonymous)]

no one grows or changes, not in ten years or ten days. asshole then, asshole now. don't give this person a chance to hurt others.



if you had a gut negative reaction to any of that, then yeah, you shouldn't make this a thing. set whatever boundaries you need to for your own safety and protection, but ultimately you need to decide whether you believe people can change, and if so, do they deserve a second chance in the venue they originally caused harm in.

disclaimer: the first paragraph was written to provoke and shouldn't actually be taken as my viewpoint

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, people can change, but that doesn't mean granting everyone a complete blank slate to possibly do the same shit over again. If this situation came to light in the friend group, the person anon (reasonably) bearing a grudge against could have apologized and taken responsibility for their hateful words at any time. While I certainly believe people can change if someone had hurt me like this and never even acknowledged that what they did was wrong, I would be giving them a DNI at very least myself.