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[socksuke_uchiha]

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[(Anonymous)]

I wouldn’t want to interact with this person either, but she might have changed a lot in 10 years. This is a tough situation.

I think even with how bad she sucked in the past, the most reasonable thing for you to do is serve her a DNI and update the mods that you gave the DNI. I would even consider giving them a brief summary that is as unemotional as you can manage, acknowledging that she might have changed in that time but you don’t want to play with her regardless. I do think mods should know bc if this person starts testing some homophobic bullshit it’s a good thing to have it on record that she has a history of homophobia.

[(Anonymous)]

+1, and tbh even if she's changed and is now a fierce advocate for queer rights you have 0 obligation to forgive her, especially if she's done nothing to earn your forgiveness and mend that bridge with you

people can change, but you have a right to your feelings and she hasn't done anything to rectify things between you, soooo...

putting on a mod hat for a sec, i wouldn't be able to ban her from my game only on the basis of you bitching about decades old deets that you learned about secondhand, via your mutual friend - sorry but it's true, op

but i can keep an eye out for homophobia if i get a warning, i do respect feelings, and i would respect the dni regardless of how stale/"grudgy" the inciting incident was so long as it's properly communicated to the other player