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It doesn't really offend me or anything, but ngl I usually take it as a sign that you're shopping around for the one. So I'm not pissed or anything but I'll probably backburner your tags a bit more.

then you're just defeating yourself, tbh. if you're the actual engaging one that tags them back, you'll be the one they keep coming back to. but if you're going to be a petty ass and 'backburner' their shit out of spite because how dare they play with another version, then enjoy your dropped threads when people get tired of waiting on things and write you off as a flake.

How so? Real talk:

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/75671.html?thread=235361687#cmt235361687

I agree with this. It's not a committed relationship. People can thread with other people. But, in the literal thread right above me.

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/75671.html?thread=235387543#cmt235387543

That. I don't blame them, but I'm not going to wait around like Hachiko either and I'll find other people to thread with too.

imo, it's because you're gauging your playing with them on their activity with others, not on your activity with them. you're seeing them play with someone else and deciding to slow-tag or backburner them because of the sole reason of their activity elsewhere. it's not how they tag you. it's not that they're a shitty tagger. it's not that they're doing anything to you other than not just tagging you. going by what you said, which was that you're taking it as them shopping around so you're going to react according to that fact in your head.

your rp partner is just playing. you're the one monitoring and reacting to their activity outside of their playing with you. that's weird.

so you would flake on purpose out of spite is what you're saying. yet you don't like it when they shop for someone who isn't going to flake because they already expect you to flake. what a self-defeating cycle that is.

if they flake on you first for someone else, that's one thing. but for you to backburner them as "punishment" when they were consistently tagging you back is just nonsensical. why do that to yourself?

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