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The mysterious depths of his manly cave

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afaik a therapist is there to help you work through the mindset that you can't do something. which in your case is "live and be happy". it doesn't matter if you "should" be able to do that. the point is that you aren't and feel like you can't. therapists who don't see that were the wrong fit. their opinions are not final verdicts on whether you need and deserve to get help.

anyway my last therapist eventually stopped replying to my messages so that he'd never have to set up another appointment with me. so i feel you. try and keep in mind that the baseline for not needing therapy is "happy" and not "not actively suicidal" and think about shopping for another therapist if you feel like you want to work on it.

Peridot, Lambert, Greg, Lars, Lauren, Annabelle.

I didn't actually know that! I've been doing it wrong all this time. Thanks anon.

what ideas got shot down

i'm honestly confused about what point you're trying to make here. are you saying it's better to have a game event centered around one person's character vs that player running a personal plot? or am i misunderstanding your comment?

what if i'm sewing seeds into the fabric of the earth

what now??????

ROTFLMFAO XDDDDD;

who are you enjoying so far?

dragon

sure jan

Ahhh!! I literally started this series a week ago, at the suggestion of a friend that I used to play D&D with, and Keyleth is my favorite character. Definitely gonna try and make a journal for her once I get a little further in! If you are still playing Vax, we will have to at least hit up a few memes or psl or something. o/ (also just wanted to wish you luck!)

i never said my rape was any worse than anyone else's. what i am saying is that i was raped because she decided i needed to be cured of my desire to not have sex. she literally thought she could show me the light or whatever

if you don't want to call it corrective that's fine, but i honestly believe i wouldn't have been put in to that situation if my lack of a sex drive hadn't come up. nothing you can say can convince me otherwise because i was there and i know how it went down

Did you plan on this from the start? I've always wanted to just take care of my mom myself when she gets to the age she needs it, because she has no one else and I don't want to send her away to a nursing home.

"wtf those therapists sucked"-anon here, with kind of a general response to you in this thread since it's gotten spread out a bit.

I still think those therapists sucked, but I will add there are unfortunately a lot of shitty therapists in the world, so it's not even honestly that surprising, and you shouldn't automatically accept their word as law. Even with good ones, how much you benefit can also have a lot to do with just how you mesh as people, which is obviously hard to measure or predict. I wouldn't say I've had any bad therapists, but I took a couple stabs at it in the past that just didn't click and didn't go anywhere. But my current therapist I've been seeing for a few years and I adore her, we're tight. It's worth shopping around and giving it more tries.

Do you "need" therapy? Or do you just want your butt patted? After a point, those are not two different things. Honestly, human beings need butt pats once in a while... But really, we're talking about emotional issues, right? If you feel like you have an emotional issue, that is an emotional issue. By definition, if it's affecting you, it's real. Personally, I'm a big fan of therapy in general. I think it can be a form of maintenance. It's like going to the gym: some people need it more than others, but pretty much everyone can benefit at least a little.

And, especially, you don't need to have like a huge breakdown first, therapy can be how you avoid having a breakdown.

Anyway, if you want to measure it objectively somehow, I'm pretty sure I need it less than you, since I've never been actively suicidal. (A couple rough nights came close but it's really just been suicidal ideation.) And no therapist has refused to see me, and my current one definitely wants me to keep seeing her, so nyah, if I can get therapy then so can you.

One other thing, just in case you're not aware of it, you might want to look into getting your plain ol' medical doctor to prescribe you antidepressants. I always used to assume you'd need a bunch of evaluation and a diagnosis to get meds, but nope, it turns out any doctor can just do that whenever they feel like it. Now, it's up to the doctor's individual judgment, and mine was frankly overly gung-ho about it to a point which was maybe a bit irresponsible -- I'm not complaining since I benefitted from it, but yeah. I'm sure it's not always QUITE as easy as it was for me. But it's an option you might want to have on the table if you want it.

I want to fuck Bastion

what? how were any of the other events about sans or steven???

i'm confused. how do we have two mcu scarlet witches on the artifixx network post? is one an au version?

i have "manips" if you'd want it!

oof, that's so rough, anon. best of luck moving out ASAP

score amended. 8/10

Man pidge/shiro is my jam, but ive also got lance and am considering Keith. i'll pm?

are you the same person throwing a tittyfit about this over on wg or are there two of you

then post to wg instead of here or no one cares

Meron nun? Ang naaalala ko parang meet and greet lang of fellow Pinoy rp-ers

i will be playing vax for A While because...vax. definitely shoot me a PM whenever that happens! and i don't mind keeping it to an earlier canon point if you wanted to try her out before catching up!

(thanks friend. i have comfort food ready for tonight's ep.)

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