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[(Anonymous)]

i'm mail-friendly with a few rp partners too and tbh i've had this happen. sometimes i get really anxious about mailing packages for absolutely no reason or i feel too apathetic to actually go out and ship something so it never gets sent, then i remember it/see the item laying around and i feel even worse about it so i avoid the problem even more.

could be something like that happening, idk.

[(Anonymous)]

it's not "no reason", it's depression.

[(Anonymous)]

i was trying to portray the sense of it comes out of the blue, nothing triggers it, i can't take measures to make it not happen because there's absolutely no reason behind it in the first place (meaning it's not like i'm some tittybaby who shakes and cries every time i have to go outside. i go outside every day and handle my own responsibilities. i'm used to it), and there's no way to tell when it's going to hit

[(Anonymous)]

sometimes i get really anxious about mailing packages for absolutely no reason or i feel too apathetic to actually go out and ship something so it never gets sent, then i remember it/see the item laying around and i feel even worse about it so i avoid the problem even more.

this is exactly what happens to me, almost every time, without fail. i agreed to a thing like a year ago now and i couldnt locate the item in question when i made the agreement, several months later i found it and i just... do they even want it any more... it's just a 10 dollar toy, they probably bought it for themselves by now and sending something like that a year late is basically an insult at this point

[(Anonymous)]

they do have depression, so that might be the case. i definitely did that to this same person last year (i had purchased something through proxy on their behalf because i was already buying stuff for myself and didn't send it until a few months later), and i hadn't thought about that! it's a good point.

i may try to gently bring it up the next time we're talking about things coming in the mail. i don't want her to feel ashamed for taking a while, but let her know i understand since I did it before, myself.

thanks, anon