All the pretty little anons

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[(Anonymous)]

Not only are opposite-sex friendships within marriage risky, they are a form of betrayal. When a person gets married or enters into an exclusive committed relationship, that person expects to be his or her partner's lover, closest and most intimate confidante, and priority. Of course, we all need close friendships outside of our marriage; however, there are plenty of people of our own gender to befriend.

In my opinion, it's simply foolish to disregard the strong association between opposite-sex friendships in marriage and infidelity. Deciding that these have no place in your marriage is one of the wisest and most pro-active measures you can take to protect the integrity of your relationship in the long-term.

It isn't weak or insecure to do this. It takes a strong person to stand by their values and to insist that there be no opposite-sex friendships within marriage. It takes a secure person to say, "I'm not living like this. I won't live with the uncertainty and the anxiety and the divided loyalties. I won't pretend that I'm not hurt because you're putting energy into this friendship instead of our relationship."

Stand by your values and vision of marriage -- you know, that whole "forsaking all others" business -- and trust your instincts.

[(Anonymous)]

i thought wg was the place to go for batshit insane tumblr copypasta

[(Anonymous)]

they know they'd get deleted or frozen for off topic there

[(Anonymous)]

marriage is dying. monogamy is dying. if you're that tempted by every opposite gender party you meet, the problem is you, not people having friendships with members of genders they're attracted to.

hth.

[(Anonymous)]

relationships are dying. procreation is dying. every generation brings us closer to our inevitable destiny of john calhoun's rat utopia.

hth.

[(Anonymous)]

Keep fucking that chicken.

And that one. And that one too.

[(Anonymous)]

i don't see what's wrong with this tbh

[(Anonymous)]

found the mormon

[(Anonymous)]

i'm serious? if you're married why would you want to be friends with some other guy

[(Anonymous)]

outside of bizarro world you'll find people make friendships regardless of surface shit like gender, race or sexual orientation

or at least they do when they're not at bpd levels of insecure and possessive

[(Anonymous)]

It isn't weak or insecure to do this. It takes a strong person to stand by their values and to insist that there be no opposite-sex friendships within marriage.

can you read

[(Anonymous)]

you can tell yourself you're "strong" for it all day op. you're still batshit fucking nuts

hopefully your boy isn't entirely cucked and bails out because you sound like the archetypal bpd drama goblin

[(Anonymous)]

just because you say the sky is magenta doesn't mean that it's actually true. if you're so insecure that you can't trust yourself or your hubby to have opposite gender friends, that's not strength. that's paranoia. you can and should have a strong marriage that involves people outside of you and your s/o. that includes people of the same and opposite genders. if you can't do that, move to alabama and go fuck your cousin.

da

[(Anonymous)]

i'll break this down simply for you: how many friends do you have? girl or guy? do you only have one of each gender? do you lose all your guy friends when you start dating, because the only reason they're your friend is the potential to vag-dive? if the answer is yes, you're an asshole.

i mean, this applies to all gender relationships. do lesbians have to not have friends who are girls? what about gay men? and bisexuals have to live in a tiny little bubble of aloneness? healthy humans have multiple social interactions with a variety of gender groups. you might have a bff who's a girl and be a het girl who's married to your other bff, but that doesn't mean you can't have other friends who are both guys and girls.

the better question is; why wouldn't you want to be friends with some other guy? friends =/= fucking. a lot of people have platonic friends. if you can't manage that, the problem is you, not the idea of having platonic friends.

[(Anonymous)]

because human beings aren't interchangeable and if you care about a person, that shouldn't just disappear when you get married?

[(Anonymous)]

you should care about your partner dude

[(Anonymous)]

because relationships are healthy, being part of a community is healthy, and connections to other people is healthy and fulfilling and give you a sense of perspective you won't get if you only have one friend and it's your spouse.

[(Anonymous)]

don't we all know couples who are only friends with each other tho

[(Anonymous)]

i know this is shitposting but it's still copypasta from tumblr so someone actually believes this.

so fuck you. it's shit stains like this that have made my wife's, my best friend's, and my lives living hell. grow the fuck up and learn to be secure in your relationships

[(Anonymous)]

wow. go back to the middle ages. I've been married for close to 10 years now and my best friend outside of my spouse is someone of the opposite sex and not once have I ever been tempted to do anything with them - not even in thoughts.

[(Anonymous)]

i wonder how this person's logic would apply to gay couples lmao

[(Anonymous)]

they probably think gays are an abomination before the lord or some such nonsense

[(Anonymous)]

bisexuals are forever alone.

[(Anonymous)]

we are all forever alone

[(Anonymous)]

this copypasta makes me laugh because the nastiest cheating stories i've heard always involve someone having an affair with their spouse's same-sex bff. so much for trusting your instincts!