rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2016-10-02 03:06 am

All the pretty little anons

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
found the mormon

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
i'm serious? if you're married why would you want to be friends with some other guy

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
outside of bizarro world you'll find people make friendships regardless of surface shit like gender, race or sexual orientation

or at least they do when they're not at bpd levels of insecure and possessive

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
It isn't weak or insecure to do this. It takes a strong person to stand by their values and to insist that there be no opposite-sex friendships within marriage.

can you read

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
you can tell yourself you're "strong" for it all day op. you're still batshit fucking nuts

hopefully your boy isn't entirely cucked and bails out because you sound like the archetypal bpd drama goblin

da

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
anon, is "cucked" really the word you wanna use there.

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
it is.

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
just because you say the sky is magenta doesn't mean that it's actually true. if you're so insecure that you can't trust yourself or your hubby to have opposite gender friends, that's not strength. that's paranoia. you can and should have a strong marriage that involves people outside of you and your s/o. that includes people of the same and opposite genders. if you can't do that, move to alabama and go fuck your cousin.

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:02 am (UTC)(link)

da

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
i'll break this down simply for you: how many friends do you have? girl or guy? do you only have one of each gender? do you lose all your guy friends when you start dating, because the only reason they're your friend is the potential to vag-dive? if the answer is yes, you're an asshole.

i mean, this applies to all gender relationships. do lesbians have to not have friends who are girls? what about gay men? and bisexuals have to live in a tiny little bubble of aloneness? healthy humans have multiple social interactions with a variety of gender groups. you might have a bff who's a girl and be a het girl who's married to your other bff, but that doesn't mean you can't have other friends who are both guys and girls.

the better question is; why wouldn't you want to be friends with some other guy? friends =/= fucking. a lot of people have platonic friends. if you can't manage that, the problem is you, not the idea of having platonic friends.

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
because human beings aren't interchangeable and if you care about a person, that shouldn't just disappear when you get married?

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
you should care about your partner dude

da

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
the two are not mutually exclusive

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
i don't get rid of my friends when i start dating. why would i do it when i got married. that's some old testament shit, bro. cut off your wife from outside sources so she can stay home and keep your quiver full.

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
if i'm married to the right guy i wouldn't need anybody else though?

maybe i'm too much of a romantic for today's hookup based society

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
do you hook up with all the guys you know or

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
like, how does your life work? 'oh, i'm sorry, i know we're having an interesting conversation and we work together/know the same people, but i can't talk to you anymore because you have a penis and i might suck it or fall on it with my vagina'.

if you're looking at every male around you as a potential sex partner, that's on you, not 'today's hookup based society'.

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
showed your hand.

sa

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(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
if i'm bisexual and married does that mean i should never have any friends whatsoever because i might fuck all of them

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
yes you greedy whore

god its like you gotta have everything

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
obviously, fellow skank

only cats for you, dozens of them

they will be your friends along with the spouse

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
because relationships are healthy, being part of a community is healthy, and connections to other people is healthy and fulfilling and give you a sense of perspective you won't get if you only have one friend and it's your spouse.

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
don't we all know couples who are only friends with each other tho

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
one, those people are codependent weirdos

two, no i dont becUse they only know each other apparently

(Anonymous) 2016-10-11 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
all the ones I've known are now divorced

they drove each other crazy over time, or were constantly accusing each other of cheating with people they had to interact with like coworkers