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do you have a link to this plurk, it sounds rich

i muted it, my friend

https://www.plurk.com/m/p/3h6w0d5krw

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went through most of it, I don't think anon mods are as huge a turn off as this thread was saying the plurk said they were

I think I'm more curious how games develop ban lists and pre-ban lists. do mods have some kind of list of names to pass around? just the usual suspects, or is there more to it? some mod teams lurk here and on wankgate, some say they don't.

it varies on the person, tbh. some of them you have to list multiple names because they go through them like underwear, either to avoid bans or for continuing to figure out who they want to be online. some of them are serious problems in games because of their behavior, their inability to communicate, their boundary pushing/ignoring preferences. serious things that make the game miserable. they fight the mods. they manufacture wank/doctor screencaps/sic people after bad cr. they're bullies. then there's the moderate/medium annoyances that ask too many minutia questions, constantly pester the mods, don't listen/don't read properly, constantly have communication issues because they don't talk to people. they're the kind of player that makes a mod groan when they open their email and see a notif from them. they make the game less fun to run and play in.

if a mod doesn't want to deal with a specific brand of shit, they have every right to just blanket block the ones they know of that are huge annoyances. snow, jamie, luc, art, g... there's frequent names that crop up that are constantly in the midst of some kind of wank. i wouldn't be upset if a mod just put all the frequently named people on a blanket 'fuck off' list and kept it to a small group. but in answer to your question, it comes from experience with people they don't like, or being here long enough to be familiar with the troublemakers.

this is going to chafe luc's ass so bad. congratulations on that upgrade

idk the fact you cant stop talking about him might go more to his head

hi x

ban lists should not be taken from lurking on wankgate, honestly. while some of that is accurate, a lot of people dropped there are pretty innocuous and just pissed off people who hang out there. i've more than once seen blatant lies there about people and situations i know extremely well, with proof to the shit being said there being wrong.

contextually. just being mentioned shouldn't warrant a ban, but if a mod goes to wg and reads threads and gets intel that a lot of people do post on wg, then it shouldn't be dismissed just because that's their portal to info. as someone shat on and brought up on wg with a bunch of deetless shit, i get it. but it's obvious when someone is just the target of a grudgewanker.

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adding to this, "legitimate" sources can also be grudgewankers. i know a couple of people who are obsessed with decades old drama from when they were refused threads in games on livejournal and still try to drag the people involved and even complain to mod teams to get the players prebanned. mod teams should ask for recent evidence of wrongdoing before they make a judgement imho.

some legit sources are also just honestly people who don't get along. neither party is that bad but they both are convinced the other one is, and yet all the details they supply are just massive miscommunications and not gelling. source: several situations reported when i was moderating. occasionally modding is just telling people to play on opposite sides of the sandbox.

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players who have legitimate reasons for wanting someone banned will be able to produce receipts. i've gotten a couple of people banned from games before because i took recent screencaps of their bad behavior to the mods and the mods looked at it and agreed they didn't want that person in their game.

tbh some people also don’t change. i’ve been in several games with this one person since ljrp and they still have not changed with their persecution complex and need to be the center of attention.

every time we’ve crossed paths i tried to be optimistic and think they’ve changed, only to be proven wrong when they keep doing the same shit. at this point i give them a wide berth because they’re still around and getting into games for some reason.

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i can spot a mutual's couple of grudgewankers by the claims they make. both were and are still pissed off that their target didn't want to thread with them years ago. it's unhinged.

you're right, but generally speaking mods aren't dumb sheep who take wg as gospel. they can use their brains to tell the difference between a grudgewank and a repeat problem offender.

the number of times i have seen people straight up lie on wg or make wild claims without a shred of proof and have their words taken as gospel and perpetuated because 'that sure sounds like [person i don't like]' well outnumbers the amount of times i have seen people with legitimate grievances

shortly after asking someone not to tag me any longer some wild claims about me started popping up. it did not make me regret asking them not to tag me but it paints a weird picture of me if anyone took the claims as truth.

i think it's more like a handful of nonnies with anonmod trauma decide they are the Voice of the Community whenever the subject comes up, but it's actually just them and their friends they are speaking for

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