Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

[socksuke_uchiha]

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[(Anonymous)]

Yes, being casual friends with someone for a years and then finding out they were two-faced and homophobic about you the whole time is indeed fairly upsetting. She was never open about it, and kept her bitching about the gays to close friends. If she is still homophobic, it would be upsetting if she did same to other people in my game before getting found out. If she isn't, which, I hope she's not? I'd still rather her leave me alone.

[(Anonymous)]

I get it, there's people who have caused me harm in the past that I wouldn't want to interact with either. that being said, I don't think that mods are likely to intervene with something that sounds like a personal non-rp related issue that happened years ago. you'd be better suited opting out and possibly blocking the person on plurk if you share mutuals.

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[(Anonymous)]

this. as a former mod, this is something that at best I'd be keeping an eye on them. ten years is a long time anon, and even if you had detailed receipts from when this happened, I wouldn't be inclined to ban them from the game without something more recent.

if they've changed, then you're trying to use mods/a hobby to punish them for something they did a decade ago. and if they haven't, I promise you they will quickly show their ass about it, since this is an incredibly queer space especially as the community has gotten older and gone through the tumultuous 20s of self-discovery.

if they app/are accepted, tell the mods that you have a personal issue with the player as a heads up/opt-out so they know to avoid situations where you could be paired up for threading opportunities. they'll appreciate that. but trying to get them preemptively banned for a personal and old grudge would put you solidly in the basket of being a player I'd start keeping an eye on as a mod too.

and fwiw since I feel like this comes off as harsh, I am sympathetic for you. that kind of shit hurts and it does suck to be around (so to speak) people that have hurt you, but this isn't the right way to go about it. I don't think you have to forgive them or be friends with them, but just opt-out and ignore them