Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

[socksuke_uchiha]

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Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

yeah, i stopped saying that after a former psl partner got up in my face for not tagging our thread back. this was a thread where we'd been doing multiple-paragraph tags and the only stuff that i felt up to tagging at the time were things like texting threads.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

oof. that sucks, anon.

I wish more folks understood that not wanting to tag the thread usually isn't about the other person. If I'm not feeling like tagging a particular thread on a certain day, it's probably because I can't see myself thinking of a good response, not because the tag doesn't deserve one. like, it's a me problem, not a person-tagging-me problem.

it sucks your partner took it the way they did.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

da

people need to be more understanding. i will often put off tagging people on a given day when i have a certain person that is a comfort psl for me that i don't get to tag with regularly who's on and i'll prioritize them.

there's also mood. i can have a few threads with a person and they only tag one because the others are either too intense or there's a mood they aren't feeling. we need to normalize not being everyone's priority at all times. sometimes i'm in a cracky, goofy mood. sometimes i'm in an intense, grimdark mood. sometimes i just want to be shippy/smutty. it's not about the other threads not being good enough, or the players being shit. it's solely about me.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt and yes, exactly. sometimes i'm just tired and don't have the brain or energy for anything more rigorous than stupid texting threads or i'm feeling sad and want some sweet shippy fluff or i'm in a really good mood and don't want to tag something dark and emotional. there's nothing wrong with the thread or the person i'm tagging, it's just not what i'm feeling at that moment and i hate that these days it seems like you can't say that without the other person taking it personally.