socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2024-11-02 06:03 pm

Makin' my blorbos smooch is what gets me through the hard times

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Re: rl woes

(Anonymous) 2024-11-12 06:19 am (UTC)(link)
i do unfortunately feel this in my bones, anon. i started nanowrimo this year (issues with the official nanowrimo guidelines and operators aside, it's nice to lock myself into a goal independent) but when That Stuff happened it's just. what is even the point?

i wish i had good advice for you but all i can say is to just keep your head down, try to remember the things in your life that bring you joy and bring you meaning, and treat yourself to a little something as much as you can until you can self-regulate better. the only way through it is through it.

Re: rl woes

(Anonymous) 2024-11-12 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

if you're going through hell, keep going.

a little resistance each day as a treat is fine. often times surviving in times of trouble and continuing on still counts as a resistance. also a little genuinely nice thing also as a treat is fine too.

this was also the first nanowrimo i finally put my hands up and said "you know what, no. time for something different" on the 6th. thankfully i was able to find different outlets for my anxiety brain. i also told myself "fuck the people who want me miserable and despairing, I AM GOING TO FIND JOY AND THEY CAN CHOKE ON IT." sometimes spiteful joy works, sometimes it doesn't. brains be weird like that.