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[(Anonymous)]

OP/AYRT

Actually, right after I posted I tested the waters for crit - since "in our thread and many others over a long period you have been incredibly OOC" feels like a huge bomb to drop, so instead I gently asked about a much smaller canon detail they got wrong (ie they were having Bob eat chicken when it's been mentioned he's a vegetarian, so I said it wasnt a big deal but asked if they had seen the supplementary vegetarian info, just checking if my Alice was meant to comment on the chicken or if it was a slip) and they did not handle it well - fawning OTT gratitude while also beating themselves up, deleted the whole thread, came back a day later to demand an apology for hurting their feelings and tell me it was ablest to expect them to remember every little detail about their character and low key compared me to an "Um, acthualllyyyy" nerd. Then when we went back to tagging they kept "checking in" about the thread to prompt me to compliment it. It's also had a ripple effect among our mutual friends, as now they're pressuring everyone to give them crit.

So not only am I not going to share this crit I think I am going to ghost this person all together and drop my character from the game we are shipping in. Yikes.

[(Anonymous)]

yikes indeed.

sorry they ended up going nuts over that. you are definitely better off not being around them.

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt, lol I'd still say that was a success. Sucks that they were ridiculous, but hey, now you know and you're free! Enjoy your greener pastures, anon. You deserve better than that!

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh sorry they showed their ass like that, anon. You're better off.

[(Anonymous)]

do you feel comfortable sharing what fandom or character because this sounds insane lmao

da

[(Anonymous)]

seconding. this is the exact type of person i'd want to avoid

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

you'd have to be pretty unaware not to see this type coming from a mile away tho

[(Anonymous)]

and we had people up-thread whining about why people give excuses like "I'm busy" instead of giving honest crit. yall that shit works out BAD. better to just coast and ghost.

[(Anonymous)]

i mean

it's a case by case basis? some people respond well to crit, but those people probably wouldn't have let things slide this far in the first place. i would've said that it's better to cut your losses instead of trying to just talk to someone who's been playing this out for weeks, maybe months, probably.

so yeah in this case cut your losses and ghost instead of going just taaaaaalk to them is the best choice.

but also handwringing about how this shit always works out badly is dumb and is equally as maladjusted as op's shipmate.