next time i'm sticking to my antisocial ways

[socksuke_uchiha]

Rundown: rpanons is an anonymous community for role-play related topics. This place serves as a forum for game discussions, canon discussions, RP solicitations (ATP, game ads, open memes), and advice. The occasional off topic comment is inevitable, but please keep heated social and political topics to their respective communities. Posting them here will only get them frozen. Subsequent threads made to bypass a freeze will then be deleted.

Rules:

Do not post pornographic or shocking images.
Do not share private entries, plurks, chat logs, etc.
Do not post personal information. This includes but is not limited to full names, addresses, phone numbers and so on.
Do not use this community as your social/political/hatespeech soapbox.
Do not be redundant. One page does not need three or more threads on one topic/theme. Your unfunny, forced memes also fall under this rule.
Do not treat this comm like your personal therapist. Threads about nonfictional suicide, self injury, rape, and abuse will be deleted. There are better resources out there for you.
Do not treat this comm like your personal Plurk or Twitter. Off-topic happens, but it should be open for discussion and not just a play-by-play of your life. No one cares.
Shut up about Tumblr. If it's not a discussion about Tumblr RP it will be deleted.
Do not solicit money, Dreamwidth points, or other currency unless you are offering a good or service in return.


CONCERNS | RESOURCES


Navigate:

Political topics are banned. Report threads and they will be deleted.

LATEST PAGE | LATEST FLATVIEW PAGE

GAME DISCUSSIONS | CANON DISCUSSIONS | HTML/GRAPHIC HELP | RP COMMISSIONS

ATP/ENABLE ME | GAME ADVERTISEMENTS | PB SUGGESTIONS | USERNAME SUGGESTIONS

GAME IDEAS | CHARACTER ADVICE | RP WITH ME | TEST DRIVES

KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY | PAIRINGS YOU WANT TO PLAY | RECOMMEND A CANON/CHARACTER | GENERAL DWRP QUESTIONS

Comments

Re: LETTERS YOU'LL NEVER SEND

[(Anonymous)]

Oversharing like this can often stem from anxiety. OP I don't know if this is the case with you. I don't know your entire situation or everything that went down. I only know your side of it. But what I do know is that I have been on both sides of oversharing and I felt like shit every time, and no amount of trying to over explain yourself to a bunch of strangers on rpanons is going to help you or give you what you seek.

Feeling dismissed when you're going through something like grief feels terrible and I'm sorry that happened to you. You don't seem like a terrible person, but I am being 100% sincere when I say I think you would benefit from therapy. You need to find the validation you need in yourself and be able to convince yourself that your feelings are valid. Even if we were to agree with what you said, it would only be a bandaid. At the very least, it sucks to have a bad association with something as serious as grief, and therapy could help you hopefully heal from that and move on.

I hope you can heal and move on.