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to be honest i don't think most people here would bat an eyelash about it. i see impregnation and also noncon on a lot of kinklists in my sexgame. people aren't really scandalized by noncon here in general.

I thought rape plots were incredibly frowned upon, even in sex games. I know I can play them in PSLs, KYWTP threads, or memes, but I haven't had any luck with any of them, not to mention no one wants to play the aftermath when the character is visibly pregnant.

i mean i don't know if anyone's ever played one out in this game but in terms of what i see on kinklists i've seen it, which shows you that a lot of people definitely aren't morally outraged by it/wouldn't judge you for it

have you considered trying f-list if you've already tried those avenues? the tone is different from dwrp and i know the ideal is to have the experience here but there are far more people into pregnancy kinks there as opposed to here and at least one room devoted to pregnancy kink you could post an ad in.

I haven't been on f-list in a while, but given my recent luck with games, I have wanted to come back to it. Indeed, ideally I'd love to have them happen here, where I get good writers and canon characters, but f-list is a whole lot more open with kinks in general.

imo people here dont dislike rape plots in games just because theyre problematic

the problem with rape plots in games is the likelihood that you risk pressuring players who dont fuck with them to deal with the ensuing fallout in having cr with your character, especially if youre involving pregnancy

if you find a way to play out a plot like this in a game without roping people in by association nobody will care, the issue is that its very tough to pull off without it rippling through your cr and inevitably there will be people who dont really want to deal with that who will feel imposed to anyway

+1 that isn't something you should be playing in a game

basically this. plus, it's one of the human tragedies that many of dwrp's largely female population is likelier to have experienced than, say, blasting a Big Bad with a laser cannon. few people handle this kind of plot line and its fallout sensitively and, done realistically, it's difficult to contain to a specific cr set.

the biggest valid case as to why you shouldn't do one in a game is that incident regarding kilgrave and supergirl doing a rape plot with a jessica jones in game and the clusterfuck that fell on the jones player afterward and all the surrounding plot because of really terrible ooc communication and a few lies. that's basically a textbook example of how not to do one. there have been other ducon/noncon rape threads in games that have gone under the radar more and if you're going to play that, it's how it should be. but when it explodes in a game like that, it's a valid excuse as to why people don't want to be around for that kind of fallout.

anon is specifically hankering for a rape plot with a pregnancy. imo there is no way to do that tastefully in a public game.

i don't judge the kink at all, but i would question the judgement of a player doing that in a game, where it inevitably involves third parties who didn't sign up for that.

this really needs to be a psl

Yep it comes with such heavy triggers that chances are like 50% (at a small amount estimation) of your CR won't want to react to it. But if you do it, it makes it such a major part of your character's current canon that them ignoring it entirely can come off as being OOC or unable to deepen CR while avoiding the topic. It's just not a good idea in a game. Too many variables.

I'd definitely distance myself from someone who did it in a game, and I wouldn't judge them for it, it's just a huge no from me personally so removing myself from the situation is best. And that sucks for both of us if we have deep CR, but it is what it is.

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my character was part of a noncon plot (really part of the setting's dubcon mechanics) and even though i did my best to make sure everyone who could possibly be involved was ok with it there was still unexpected fallout as uninvolved players decided to take sides. it was exhausting to deal with and the other player involved actually dropped over it.

i regret doing it and if i could go back i wouldn't have even considered it, despite it being part of the setting.

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and even if everyone involved is on board, people can change their mind once it plays out.

i was once involved in a situation where everyone was on board until it actually happened. the aggressor character's player, who had pitched the plot initially, backpedaled and objected to any character criticizing them, all because the character he attacked reacted negatively... when the victim having to fight him off was part of the premise they pitched.

it was stupid. half the people involved dropped, all because this one player pitched a plot they weren't willing to follow through on.

Imagine if someone raped your canonmate there would be no way of opting out of that and you would be forced to play your character in an incredibly specific way.

yeah it's the fallout for castmates. someone once asked me if i'd be okay with a rape plot, and i had to point out that the consequence for that would be my character would murder the rapist

it'd be exhausting for me and them

fwiw "even in sex games" is borderline can of worms comment, because rape isn't about sex, even though some people do sexualize rape roleplay and treat it like a kink. which is fine and whatever go ahead and play what kinks you want i don't care if it's rape or deli mustard or feet, but deli mustard and feet aren't crimes, and the crime aspect is why it doesn't fly in games, not the kink aspect.

honestly it's not even the crime aspect, it's just that so many of us don't want to deal with it and have it excluded in permissions

it's not worth the hassle, op

lmfao since when have we been above rping crimes

are you new here

doesn't say that anywhere in the comment lol? i meant because it impacts so many other characters. not just the trauma but there's a big difference between players getting into a spat because the joker doesn't want to be punished for blowing up the moon with a space laser and players getting into a spat because timmy skeevy doesn't want to get punished for raping an impregnating another character. some crimes are too difficult and too sensitive to rp.

"i don't care if it's rape or deli mustard or feet, but deli mustard and feet aren't crimes, and the crime aspect is why it doesn't fly in games, not the kink aspect."

too bad that isnt what you said?

I think it's more the fact that it's unignorable but also real world sensitive, given that I'm pretty sure people wouldn't have the same reaction to my character disemboweling another person's character before killing them even though 1. That's also a crime! 2. And hard to ignore!

i've managed to play them in two sex games in the past (using forced prostitution mechanics with npcs that were present in the game's setting), though most sex games don't allow characters to get pregnant.

you can't really make it a long-term/lingering trauma thing, and you need to be very mindful that your castmates and cr are either okay with it, or actively interested in the fallout, which isn't always going to happen. so while it's definitely possible without starting any drama, you do need some perfect situations to fall into place for it.

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