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these are valid feelings to have and if i were you, i think there's only one option i'd choose. i'd sit them down, have a chat with them, and fully explain this. start with, i'd really appreciate if you didn't brush any of this off and listen entirely until i'm done'. because it sounds like they'll be dismissive of most of this, if not all of it, and deny any of this being a problem.

if they're willing to listen, then maybe this can be resolved and you can feel better, but if not, then you did your best and you tried, and it'd be in your best interest to walk away. losing a great psl partner sucks, but if it's being this entangled with their ic/ooc blurring and they're being rewarded by being shitty with you staying around, they'll never feel they have to change. not to mention that it adds stress on you when you're worrying about it during your entire interactions, particularly when they get negative. they're not clear in what they want if they're saying 'fight x so he loses and you can make it up to him', then they turn around and whine about how much x hates this and they want to change their mind. that's terrible communication.

Thank you anon, yeah this seems like what's going to have to happen. I wouldn't have too much of a problem if it was just a bit of IC/OOC bleed as I know these things happen sometimes when things get emotional, but when it's getting to the point of having to walk on eggshells around her unless the PSL is going well or she's getting what she wants, it really sucks. I want to be able to write conflict and difficult situations without having to worry that she's taking it personally, you know?

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