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I feel bad because I definitely dropped the ball on one PSL because I was in a deep depression, but since we barely got out of the planning stage, I’m wary of asking again because I’m highly likely to disappear again soon. It wasn’t you, it was me...

I do this. When I'm well, I'm confident and excited and think I can do it. When I'm not, everything screeches to a halt and then I don't know how to fix it when I know it will probably do it again.

I try not to agree to psls anymore because I can't even trust myself about it. :(

I mean, at least you know that about yourself now and try not to agree to things you know you can't do! That's fairly mature.

I think I'd be less frustrated if it weren't for the fact that it was me responding to someone ELSE'S request, rather than the other way around. You wanted the thing, now you don't?? Come on, make up your minds...

Reach out to your PSL partner tell them exactly what you said here! That it's not them, you just feel really shitty right now and you don't want to get their hopes up.

I mean, if it were me, I'd definitely appreciate the honesty! Yeah it sucks to hear "Sorry, I just flaked bc my mental health is shit," but it's understandable, and anyone who doesn't understand that is a bit of a dick. I know personally I'd much rather prefer to hear "Sorry I dropped the ball, and I can't promise that I won't again in the future," than total radio silence, which leaves me sitting there wondering what I did wrong.

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