rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2018-10-20 10:50 pm

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Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-23 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I’m so glad I’m not the only one a little put off by her obsession but they’re not the only one on there that seems to have an actor preference.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
true but she's the only one that i know in the game who plays literally nothing but that actor and has a pattern of this level of fixation on at least one other actor in the past. has she ever played a non-david s character in the last couple years?

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
there's a difference between 'actor preference' and 'I wouldn't be surprised if this girl goes full tilt creepy fanletters at some point'. Bee is closer to the latter.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
she probably already has gone full tilt. her plurks about when she actually met him in person were so creepy.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
There's a difference between actor preference and completely obsessed. While she's rather sweet when she's not plurking constantly about him, the fact that she obsessively draws, watches, and stalks anything that contains him on a daily basis speaks to a level that's beyond just a fangirl. It's really off-putting, especially to anyone who's just walked into this. I honestly would have defriended her instantly if I hadn't already been forewarned.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
that kind of obsession ends up with either restraining orders, or someone ending up dead.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-24 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
https://wankgate.dreamwidth.org/51996.html?thread=202276636#cmt202276636

when you see some of the shit she's posted on her timeline, it's a wonder that someone isn't dead. a fan who gets mad about seeing photos of another person shaking his hand or just standing near him is not a normal crush. that's ricardo lopez level of insanity.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
flatviewer here so sorry in advance.

but that cat plurk annoyed the fuck out of me because i've known too many fandom people like that.

"i saw 2 cats this morning! they were cute and reminded me of my ship! let me tell you about all the way they're similar to my ship! like one is black like goku's hair and one is brown like dean's hair! and the dean cat was clearly the more dominant cat, like in dean/goku! and they hissed at a human couple that looked vaguely like rl castiel and chi-chi if i squint my eyes and reach so hard that both my arms are broken! also cats can be gay! F U C K I N ' O T P , Y ' A L L ! ! ! ! ! !"

they're literally animals you've never fucking met, calm the fuck down. you don't look cute, you look like a fucking weirdo who will project their dumb ship/character on anything that vaguely reminds you of them.

i feel bad for celebrities that have fans like this. it's bad enough people like the supernatural guys have something like that hyper-realistic fetish fanart forever attached to their name, imagine knowing that at least one of your fans is obsessively lusting for you and/or maybe wants to murder your wife and take her place as rightful heir of your penis.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
imo it's way creepier that you're so hung up on this one person doing something that doesn't even affect you. unfriend her if you don't like her plurks, don't tag her if the characters she plays bug you so much. the obsession might be weird but bee's a sweet girl and it's overdramatic af to claim she's a threat to anyone's life.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
quoting directly from the wg link:

"BeeBooped Me looking for more David S. reference photos for drawing: Ugh, I hate everyone who has ever gotten to stand next to him. - Brain: come on, silly, that is ridiculous - Me: fine. - Me one second later after seeing another photo of someone shaking his hand: ....bitch."

even if she's overreacting and trying to be cute, this goes past 'weird' into 'worrying'.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
and it's not overreacting to suggest that means she's going to hurt someone? bee's on my tl, i see her david s. plurks all the time. that wg post pulled the most extreme examples. she plurks about him a lot and she's definitely obsessed, but she's not plurking stuff like the thing you just quoted 24/7. that quote is the absolute peak that i've seen from her and she's been on my plurk for years.

my point is that she's clearly shameless about her obsession, so if she was seriously going to snap and do crazy shit beyond fangirling on her plurk, we would definitely hear about it. she's just a massive fan.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
i have no idea who this person or david s is and i keep thinking you're talking about david s. pumpkins

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
ANY QUESTIONS?

+1

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
she really is a nice person, anons are getting melodramatic; i think it's odd but i figure it's one of the ways she copes with her health issues so it's hard for me to judge her for it.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
Then stop enabling it. That goes for everyone else who keeps putting her ass every creepy ass David S. obsession plurk.

+100

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously, this is not cute - watch "I think we're alone now" - a documentary about two people who obsessively stalk 80s pop star Tiffany - one got a restraining order from Tiffany and at the end switches to stalking Rose McGowan talking as if she was a girl he has a real relationship with - Bee talks exactly like those people - it's not cute, it's not healthy.

Yea, Bee's gonna be mad if people call her out on this, but really people should be discouraging this kind of behavior, because it's NOT GOOD FOR HER.

Re: +100

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
if what you see her say on her timeline bothers you that much why don't you say something to her yourself instead of expecting other people to do it for you?

Re: +100

(Anonymous) 2018-10-26 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
lay off the hyphens, mate, we're not communicating by telegram here

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 09:04 am (UTC)(link)
She might seem sweet to you but long as she keeps hurling this dude's face everywhere while constantly obsessing about him on plurk then sorry but don't expect the anon wank to stop anytime soon. It's not our fault she keeps giving people reason to be skeeved out by her.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-11-03 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
If she skeeves you out, then be a fucking adult and don't fucking follow her timeline. All this pearl-clutching is pathetic.

+2

(Anonymous) 2018-11-03 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Person who is really into an actor, news at 11.

I'm also not seeing the issue here and looking at anons that are being overly serious. Bee is also on my timeline; I have no idea who this actor is, so I usually don't respond these plurks, I just mute them and move on. It's wild to see people try and compare this to actual stalking behavior when it's like any other internet user posting about an actor they like. I've seen creepier stuff on Tumblr with Bill Skarsgard than this or even serial killers.

I don't see how this is dangerous; in no way is Bee making an effort to harass this actor; she just talks and draws (and very wonderfully) this actor. So what. Who the hell cares. Assuming that someone like her is on the same level to, say, Bjork's stalker is ridiculous. People can obsess over a series, game, actor, or band. If it bothers anons so much then... mute or defriend her.

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
is this the same bee who was unhealthily obsessed with asa butterfield a few years back?

Re: HADRIEL

(Anonymous) 2018-10-25 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Same one.