socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2018-03-04 03:14 pm

I am of roller coaster blood! We can never be together!

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt and lol sorry the playerbase got excited for the plot of the plot heavy world hopping adventure game that was advertised ig. because it's so easy and attractive to do sol stuff in the middle of a kidnapping, torture, and eviction setup.

you didn't address my "this has been months coming" point because i think you know that asking people to be patient for longer than that when they could be investing their energy in another game is unreasonable.

wanting a mod to feel responsible for keeping the game functioning when they aren't around isn't too much to ask for. you can feel bad for the mod's life issues and still think they have at best poor judgment of when they need backup, and it's been consistent enough that it doesn't look like it'll change soon. the call for helper mods didn't even include someone who could actually answer player questions, for crying out loud.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
they had backup. the backup bailed. this was part of why delays happened, which in December would be, what, a few days? big fucking deal. the delays now are because of different shit and it's hard to find new backup when the people making offers are talking about dropping at the same time and you're still buried in shit.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
yes. the lack of foresight that goes into "this has been a problem in a smaller way before but there is surely never going to be a bigger problem like this again so i'm not going to try to rearrange anything till it becomes a huge difficult-to-repair mess" is what i was saying when i pointed out that the mod had proven themselves to not have great judgment or prioritization here.

look, you clearly admit the game isn't functioning well right now. people are not obligated to stick around for that. insulting the playerbase for concern probably does not make them want to stick around more either.

da

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
at least we'll know who this douchebag is when the rest of the game drops or idles out and they'll be the last person valiantly posting to prove the game isn't dead

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It's sad that it isn't already obvious, tbh.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
plot twist: mod is desperately self-whiteknighting themselves here while claiming to be "unavailable"

sounds conspiracy theoryish but certainly wouldn't be the first time something like this has happened

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish. Instead it's me, wondering how people can really be this callous to rl > rp when it comes to mods and lamenting the fact that the mod is still trying to get things in working order when it would probably be better to drop the stress of it all.

Like, seriously, do you know how unappealing it is to offer a spot as a helper and then say Gosh I Might Drop or otherwise talk shit about the person you're wanting to help? Both feelings can exist at once, but if I WERE the mod and not the sad person I am yelling here, I would be immediately shutting the game down.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
you've done this kind of aggressive mod defense before and it makes the mod look really bad every time. i don't know why they haven't asked you to stop.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
probably because they're busy trying to fix shit

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-12 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
kiss doesn't have time to be whiteknighting herself, she has RL gore blogs to run

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gonna need some deets, son

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
let's be real it's probably otis

quietly leaving an rp that's failing instead of hanging around indefinitely waiting on the mod's health makes the playerbase ~savages~

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
deets

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
https://spellgrinders.dreamwidth.org/31759.html

they also admitted it was them right below this so lol

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
ding ding, points for you. See guys, I said it was obvious. It's the ones quietly leaving I don't have a problem with, as they usually have their own problems going on as well. The ones doing nothing but adding complaints and posting passive aggressive emotes are the ones I'm sick of. Go meme.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe it's the plan ;)

in seriousness, I'm tired of seeing people not taking the series of events into account. Yes, people can drop and feel bad and want to drop, and see people dropping and drop. yes, it's frustrating. it's also frustrating to know someone is going through hard times and then have people purposely going onto every platform they can to complain, because all that does is add more stress and problems to fix. mod is one person and has been stuck playing catch up for a while.

and if you think their priorities aren't in order because they're trying to get control over their real life circumstances instead of spending time making up reasons for you to smash your toy barbie against some other barbie..........lmao.

da

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
you're deliberately missing the point so you can stay up on your moral high horse, aren't you

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I see the point and understand a certain level of frustration, but I'm still annoyed at how much the ooc talk comes off as not giving a shit about a person's life.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
nah, you're just whiteknighting from atop your glorious steed that the cruel and unfeeling rabble can never aspire to climb astride

i have never once seen someone going "stupid mod needs to ignore her health and give me my pretendy funtimes now now now now NOOOWWWWWWWW!" it's all been "shit sucks but i'm tired of twiddling my thumbs here so i'm out"

but whatever you feel will ingratiate you to the mod, i guess

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
i think it's perfectly fine for them to have different priorities than "realize you have trouble with mod responsibilities and keeping commitments when stuff starts getting rough for you and make an effort to adjust accordingly." i also think that not having that approach is bad for maintaining a game, so i dropped.

i sincerely hope their health gets better.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
How is it in the year of our lord 2018 the concept of "a single mod shouldn't be the only one with all the plot info" is hard to grasp? Every game should have more than one mod that has been prepared ahead of time to handle the plot. At the last game I modded at, there was a game bible that was kept in a google doc that we could all see so anyone could pick up and plot mod if one of the normal plot mods got KOed by RL.

You can have sympathy for someone's RL situation and still think a mod team has failed by not making sure more than one mod can do it. They're not mutually exclusive and it's a common enough problem that every mod team should be prepared for it.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
how can it be that it's already been said that the help bailed when this mod needed them and you make this comment?

that said, yes, there are many frustrating things that weren't expected to be problems and they could have been handled better, but it wasn't, so right now bitching endlessly about it doesn't help.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
how can it be?! /swoons dramatically

(Anonymous) 2018-03-11 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
sorry I forgot the proper meme terminology, I'm a failure on this account as well as many others, as you can see

(Anonymous) 2018-03-12 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
this is p much the reason havenrpg went down like it did. sad stuff.