rpanonyoda ([personal profile] rpanonyoda) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2017-02-08 11:04 pm

good luck to your dad on his path to downton abbey BNFdom

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Do not treat this comm like your personal Plurk or Twitter. Off-topic happens, but it should be open for discussion and not just a play-by-play of your life. No one cares.
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Re: Victory Road

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
No AC again either. Which I don't mind but it's not hard to send a quick plurk just to let people know what's going on.

I understand that a lot has been happening but I absolutely hate the lack of communication when it takes just a moment to let people know what's up. Everyone here understands but don't leave us in the dark.

+1

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
keep your "anons, my ass itches, tell me what it means!" posts somewhere else.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
honestly, maybe mod should collect a bunch of links to places like 7cupsoftea, etc. and stick them on every new post.

ANOTHER THING: can we ban comments that ask really stupidly specialized questions that have nothing to do with rp and would be better suited to a forum of subreddit or something? i don't understand why people come here to ask about ridiculously esoteric subjects like shrinky dinks and lip botox. if the comment could conceivably be answered by a very general audience like rpanons, okay, that's fine, but there does come a point when it just starts getting weird.
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[personal profile] bivalent 2017-02-21 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, Camila Mendes has a somewhat unique shape to her face! So I've learned from icon gathering. (Not saying it's bad, she's obviously a beauty.) I think it owes somewhat to the fact that she's pursing her lips which makes her chin jut out, too.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
But how will I workshop my OC? My main target for this bratty genius OC is about 12-14 years old.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
wgar

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
tbh i've always disagreed with this rule. what's going to stop someone from making a vaguepost that isnt rp related but changing the words around a bit so that it sounded like it was?

why is there a rule against this anyway? i've gotten lots of help from rpa because theres nowhere else i can post anonymously except a chan, and sometimes i am just way too embarrassed to post under a username.

we could try a header, though!

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, thanks for the reply op!

so from the sounds of this reply, if i just change my email's password, i should probably be safe? i already changed my tumblr password back when that leak happened, but i was nervous that because my email was added to a spam list, i'd have to change the email on every account associated with that address. i've had this email since 2005 and there's... a lot of accounts tied to it.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
im the same anon below that disagrees with this rule and i personally have never had a pleasant experience on 7cups and similar sites. either the person on the other end (since it's just one) is entirely unhelpful/unknowledgable or they're absolute assholes. also, none of them can fucking type.

+1

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
rpa has always had plenty of off-topic threads, nobody really gives a crap about this rule anyway. a subheader would be a good way to contain it, at least.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
"blogposts not even vaguely related to rp don't exactly contribute anything, are a real downer to read"

I didn't realize we are required to read every single word that's posted here, especially if they're under a subthread that's no interest to us.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
hey you have a little ribbon by your name

+1

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been hoping for a subthread for non-rp talk for a long time. I know there's probably more people against it than for it but I wish we could have it anyway.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
take it to your tumblr, ffs.

Re: PB SUGGESTIONS

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Androgynous woman with short dark hair and brown eyes, late teens or 20s. Ideally in Victorian men's clothing, but I'm flexible on that. (Any Twelfth Night movies out there where Viola is a brunette?)

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
why is there a rule against this anyway?

Because this is RPANONS and lots of us aren't here for playing therapist? Like, you're in an anoncomm for talking about roleplay. If you want to whine about rp or vaguely rp related shit, you are home, go for it. If you want advice about an abusive roommate or driving directions or tips for how to not get your nail polish smudged when they're still wet... idk bro, maybe try Reddit? but it doesn't belong here.

It's kind of like walking into Lowes, demanding to see their clothing section, and then throwing a fit when all they have is overalls for construction work and you want a halter top. It's one thing to ask, but it's another to start yelling and demanding a manager when people politely ask you to check elsewhere.

Except this isn't lowes, and we don't have customer service reps, and instead of being told politely to go you're gonna get two or three trolls shitting up the thread before a mod has to come clean up the mess.

Re: KINKS YOU WANT TO PLAY

[personal profile] tfwsocks 2017-02-21 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
ok, hit me up. we'll talk.

da

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
one reason a lot of people hate playing with characters like this is because the player of that character type always has to have their genius win or be right all the time, even in a simple argument/disagreement. the player never seems to want to play their genius character losing an argument or being wrong about something. you have to keep in mind that "genius" does not mean "being right 100% of the time about everything ever and never losing".

real life genius types usually have certain things they're skilled at: such as figuring out mathematical problems, games of strategy (such as chess), playing a musical instrument, having a memory for detail when it comes to certain subjects. they aren't just a genius "at Life" in general. no one is a genius at EVERYTHING. think about what specific skills your character has. is he a genius computer hacker? in that case, he might be great with code but he might be terrible at other things and pretty stupid when it comes to social behavior. so if you play him in a game, let him be terrible at some things. let him be mediocre at some things. let him be able to make mistakes and learn from them. geniuses aren't just born. they LEARN things.

also if he's bratty, think about WHY he's bratty. does he just not understand that other people have feelings? or is he hiding an underlying sense of low self esteem? what are things he's afraid of? and i don't just mean "spiders". i mean what are his real weaknesses? his real fears? these are fantastic questions to ask yourself when making ANY character.

i used to rp in a game with a character who fit the "bratty child genius" trope to a T but was still wonderful to play with because the player was willing to let the character be wrong, lose arguments, get frustrated with himself for not understanding something, make mistakes, and eventually learn to be a better person. you have to be willing to poke fun at your character's flaws and let other characters poke fun at them, too. if your character is the type to troll people, you have to be able to let him get trolled back.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I really, really wish people would stop using JUST SCROLLLLL as a defense for shitty behavior. How about instead of expecting everyone to be chill with the suicide and abuse conversation threads, you follow the rules and take them somewhere appropriate?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
new dreamwidth feature, comm staff can indicate a post is being made in an official capacity.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Sara Rue in 'Popular'?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
if you mean anon comms, there's also hms_anon (sf_drama i think?) and kpsm3 (k-pop)

and fandomsecrets if that counts

(Anonymous) 2017-02-21 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Why are you talking about this as if comments with "I need help with depression" are the only ones that are not related to rp?

I would honestly like to hear from the mod(s) why the following threads are not deleted when they have nothing to do with rp, or alternatively, why couldn't we have them in a subthread of their own? Nobody has complained about them, yet they are just as unrelated to rp as suicide comments are.


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anons, can you tell me about situations you've experienced or witnessed where someone was treated badly/with suspicion because they didn't act the "right" way?

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Weekend haul

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Poll: Work

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does twitter ever enforce their inactive account policy

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imagine that you have a friend who lives in paris.

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Just because I'm curious: how many of you have a strange fetish? What is it?

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when it's fuck o'clock in the morning and you have zombie related questions

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let's say someone in your family or friend group lashes out at either multiple people or everyone. let's call him david.

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What is your favorite conspiracy theory?

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Hey, guys! If anyone's interested in learning how to use Unity 5, there's an ebook for how to learn Unity AI programming that's free for only today.

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why does she have a giant fish

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what are your thoughts on people who try to get certain things banned just because someone had a bad experience with them

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have you ever had a male friend who tries imposing his opinions and preferences on you?

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free games?

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Happy key day!

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that feel when your friend is super fucking dumb