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(frozen comment) Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

feeling taken advantage of and like an idiot because your ex-friend is saying shitty things about you behind your back isn't abuse, tho. people fight. people do shitty things to each other when they fight. but that doesn't make it abuse just because the people involved have their feelings hurt

in dw rp, too many people are using the "they were abusive" line to cast all the blame on the person they had a falling out with. it's an easy way to wash their hands of a situation and a problem and to ignore the fact that, shit, maybe they did some things the other person could consider abusive too by those standards. i've seen that behavior a lot even recently and that's not something any of us should agree with or condone

sometimes people have personalities that don't mix. sometimes life situations change and the people you thought would be there for you can't be for whatever reason. fights hurt people. doesn't necessarily make anyone in the equation abusive, and like i said upthread, we really, really need to save the dramatics for the people who actually deserve it

(frozen comment) Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

i uh, don't know how you'd define abuse, but if i had a "friend" who was going around saying shit things behind my back and lying to me and isolating me from other friends (by saying shitty things about me to them), i'd consider that pretty abusive.

tbh anon, i think you're reading too much into things. we don't know what original anon's rp partner did that set this off, and they're just looking for some advice on how to cope after someone's been a shithead to them, and criticizing their choice of wording and labeling things as dramatic seem excessive when we have no idea what took place. maybe the things you described are what happened-- they fought, they had clashing personalities, rp partner said some totally reasonable thing and op flipped out. maybe the rp partner legit stalked them, maybe they stole money, maybe they were just a shithead who took advantage, maybe they came over to their house and gutted their cat. we don't know, but it doesn't really matter either.