rpanons | You sound fat

Rundown:

rpanons is an anonymous community for role-play related topics. This place serves as a forum for game discussions, canon discussions, RP solicitations (ATP, game ads, open memes), and advice. The occasional off topic comment is inevitable, but please keep heated social and political topics to their respective communities. Posting them here will only get them frozen. Subsequent threads made to bypass a freeze will then be deleted.

Rules:

Do not post pornographic or shocking images.
Do not share private entries, plurks, chat logs, etc.
Do not use this community as your social/political/hatespeech soapbox.
Do not be redundant. One page does not need three or more threads on one topic/theme. Your unfunny, forced memes also fall under this rule.
Do not treat this comm like your personal therapist. Threads about nonfictional suicide, self injury, rape, and abuse will be deleted. There are better resources out there for you.
Do not treat this comm like your personal Plurk or Twitter. Off-topic happens, but it should be open for discussion and not just a play-by-play of your life. No one cares.
Shut up about Tumblr. If it's not a discussion about Tumblr RP it will be deleted.

CONCERNS | RESOURCES

Flat | Top-Level Comments Only

ciswoman here, I get on with transmen like a house on fire, but unfortunately a metric fuckton of transwomen I've met still hold onto a bizarre kind of aggressively male privilege from growing up with the boy facade and it just makes a lot of them unpleasant to deal with.

Can't have discussions in female safe spaces about reproductive rights because weh weh we should be thankful we can have babies at all. Sally Sue needs an abortion because she was raped? Tch. Throwing away a gift. I shit you not.

ive had to witness the Pink Frenzy or whatever it's called when some transgirls morph into offensive stereotypes of bratty teenage girls. it's uncomfortable as fuck. some have gotten in-your-face aggressive and nasty to me, just like how some men do when you tell them no or turn them down

obviously not all transwomen are awful, and some transmen are douchebags too, but dang.

yeah, trans women have definitely benefited from male privilege, no matter how much they exclaim that saying such is "transphobic." guess what, you grew up being treated like a boy and got special privileges because that's what you passed as, fucking deal with it. from what i've seen, plenty (but not all) of them are misogynistic and feel entitled to women and their bodies because of how they were brought up as men too.

i know that you're not shitting me. :( because i've personally dealt with trans women treating me like shit because not wanting my breasts or vagina is "throwing away a gift" in their eyes. if only it were possible to cut off my breasts and tear out my uterus/vagina and give them to a trans woman and vice versa. or, you know, body switching would be nice too. i wanna be tall, damn it!

and for future reference, it's preferred that you call us trans men/trans women rather than transmen/transwomen. i'm personally not offended by your wording because i have a pretty thick skin, but some people see it as man vs transman and it suggests that trans men aren't "real" men.

congrats on your free education from a minority, tumblr would've accused you of being a problematic shitlord by now! :)b (i'm being facetious, not passive-aggressive, jsyk!)

it's nice to someone else bring up transwomen and male privilege because i never see that brought up and i know if i mention it anywhere i'll be attacked to hell and back. being socialized and raised male influences their worldview and they have benefited from male privilege, even if they don't anymore. it's not a bad thing but it's a thing that needs to be addressed, but no one will because then you're a big evil transphobe and misogynist and blah blah blah.

meanwhile, because i identify as male i immediately have all male privilege ever and am a big mean oppressor, never mind that i'm constantly mistaken for a 12 year old girl.

right??? i identify as male but present as andro (or an ugly girl with man-face) because i'm not out irl, but somehow that gives me male privilege. what a crock of shit.

if i've got male privilege, then where are my god-given male benefits? /s

You sound fat

Re: MORE VENTING AHEAD, I APOLOGIZE IN ADVANCE

Re: MORE VENTING AHEAD, I APOLOGIZE IN ADVANCE

another transguy and ranter

Re: another transguy and ranter