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Any advice anons around? I've gotten into a shitty habit of being so much of a perfectionist that whenever I don't overachieve in something it makes me so embarrassed that I end up wanting to give it up entirely like a giant toddler. Does anyone know any handy mental tricks for getting past it? I'm getting pretty sick of it.

being a perfectionist implies that you believe you're capable of anything perfect, and you're not. accept that you're going to be subpar and make shitty mistakes like everyone else in the world. who cares?

That's a really interesting way of thinking about it, anon, since I've never really thought of myself as egotistical in that- I could probably do with being taken down a notch subconsciously. Thanks you!

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