rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2012-11-17 08:58 pm

[M] You blockhead

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:06 am (UTC)(link)

hello everybody

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whart's wrong, anon?

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hello no one

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hello anon

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes the little fish eats the big fish.

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I'm so hungry, I could eat a whaaaaake shark

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
have you ever taken a shit that smells so unbelievably rank that the stench surpasses being unpleasant and you're compelled to just breathe it in and marvel at its awfulness for a minute

kind of like the olfactory version of a trainwreck

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
that's called zodion

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baby it's coooold ouuutsiiiiiide

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I love this song, idec what people say about it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
it's so relieving being diagnosed with something and finding out that a chronic issue you had always assumed was just something you would have to live with is actually manageable and treatable!

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
congratulations!!

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
i appreciate it when my cat is polite enough to throw up in her litterbox instead of on my floor

twenty times easier to clean up

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
rolls across the new post

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
I love my game and everyone in it.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
do you play in hollyheights

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
boom de yada boom de yada

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
this girl on my plurk is cute x-(

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
what a baka

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
I see people who tag into tons of memes with piles of characters and I'm just like

how

how do people have time for the resulting amount of threadage

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
most of the threads drop off within 24 hours

i do extreme tagging to find that one thread that will go on longer than a day or so

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
Don't be hating on the sister for dating a rad man~♥

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
that moment when you finally have a day set aside for tags and rp

and no one is tagging you back

anywhere

sigh

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 06:05 am (UTC)(link)
is anyone watching any of desert bus for hope?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
c: anons i have a date next week

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
oooh, congratulations! where are you two going?

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
not rp-related, but let's face it, most of the stuff here isn't. does anyone have any recommendations for a website where you can list things for sale that isn't craigslist? i have a gaming laptop that i desperately need to sell, but i've had bad luck with ebay and nothing but scammers contacting me on cl.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
look for niche websites related to what you're selling and see if their community areas have a sales section? for the groups who stayed active after the lj fiasco, i know i've seen sale communities for pretty obscure things and if you can find one, that might end up being your best bet.

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SA

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 07:52 am (UTC)(link)
gettin some crossmedium smut on

awww yeah

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 08:20 am (UTC)(link)
my clitoris weeps openly at the loss of enthusiasm for anontalk

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 10:21 am (UTC)(link)
I kind of want a game where your character only adds the journals of other characters they would normally add. But I guess that would make it too hard for some people to get CR.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
this is how i started rping with friends

it was more museboxy than a game though

and we still had a comm for when characters wanted to tell everyone something

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 11:12 am (UTC)(link)
let's have a log in thread

log in and post whatever the hell you want to
exastris: what is this all about hmmm (plotting ⇨ whatever your reasons)

[personal profile] exastris 2012-11-18 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)


This is the last thing I had c/p'd and I thought I'll share it with you guys. :D

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
all of my games are slow as shit

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
your game needs more fiber

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
are there any decent female lpers?

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There are no decent female entertainers, so amateurs saying stupid things over video games have no chance.

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm in one of those situations were the obvious solution is just "just drop you other games," but I can't bring myself to for various reasons.

Okay, so. Let's say I'm in Games A, B, and C. Each game has its own set of people I play with and no overlap. Game A I've been in for years, done everything I could possibly do, and have mostly stuck to playing with a core group of CRmates and while I can make AC decently every month, I still find myself struggling with character arcs and actually DOING things in game. Game B is one of those games where it's super difficult to get much done because I'm not SUPER ACTIVE, but I have a group of players I really like playing with there and play with them, if at all possible. Plus I have great casts there, but, again, I don't feel like I'm DOING anything. Just existing.

And then there's Game C. Game C is PERFECT. It's the right speed, I love everyone in the game, I'm super involved, and ultimately I forego tags to my other games because I'm prioritizing tags to this game, which isn't fair to the players I play with in my other games.

So yeah, the solution is just drop, even if it would upset a lot of my long-standing CR in Game A and upset my castmates in Game B, because obviously I'm not having fun, but the fallout would suck so hard, because I wouldn't be able to play with these people anymore, except in memes, but a lot of them don't do memes. :(

I'm not so much looking for a solution or buttpats as I am wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen to them and if they got a lot of resentment over it. The last time I left a game I wasn't having fun in for another game, my closest RP partners at the time who were in that game and not in the game I left for just DUMPED me completely.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Most of my closest friends that I met through RP I haven't played with in a game in years. I mean, I try to join games they're in when I can, but sometimes I have to drop if the game isn't a good fit.

I've lost close friends, too, but it was never because of a drop--either we drifted apart, or we had some huge dramatic argument that sometimes contained stuff about RP but usually had extenuating circumstances that really caused things to go sour.

If you drop from the games you're feeling burned out on, you'll probably lose some friends, particularly those that you only talk with about RP. And yes, you'll probably put some of your CR in a bind. But that's just part of RP. You can't be expected to play in a game forever, and most reasonable people will have probably already seen this coming and would rather you play where you're feeling excited and having fun rather than just hanging around to play with your CR. (In particular in Game B it sounds like you're just getting involved with a clique because that's all you're sticking around for.)

I say drop. If you use plurk, keep everyone you like around and you'll still be able to talk to them. Eventually those friends will probably move on and head off to different games too, and then you'll maybe be able to jump into their new game and play with them again. And if not, well, it's disappointing but that's the way things are sometimes. The people that are worth keeping around aren't going to freak out at you about it, particularly if you give them all fair warning and try to finish up any loose threads your CR would like to take care of.

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
can anyone link me to some of those long character questionnaires? i want to play someone who doesn't get a lot of face time in his canon, and something to help me flesh him out would be great.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
http://soxen.livejournal.com/3472.html

this is my favorite to use because it covers all the bases

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