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people don't want to rp with you because of your kinks

people don't want to rp with you because you turn your kinks into an identity, where telling you they're not interested in stuff that are common triggers is equivalent to bigotry

get off the cross we need the wood

did you mistake this thread for letters you can't send?

no, aggro-chan, this is a recurring problem i've experienced over the years in this hobby as a smut rper in games and memes/psls

ok condescending-kun, what does it look like when someone makes their kinks their identity?

https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/100231.html?thread=287010183#cmt287010183

op clearly has a humiliation kink

you're a fucking weirdo fyi

???? what is with aggro anons itt

sexually harassing random people in a thread talking about boundaries being broken is very read the room of you, anon

lol what

idk about them but i'll give you an example when this happened to me

i opted out of a character because an important facet of their characterization deals with something that triggered me badly at the moment. like i was in therapy for it badly

this person went on to blast me in a private plurk about how 'this has never happened before, i can't believe people don't want to rp with my blorbo,' how sounded like a puritan, how i couldn't differentiate fiction from reality, blah blah blah

this person made kink a significant part of their online persona. kink memes, self-identifying as 'problematic', being knee-deep in the anti vs. proship wars, commissioning art of this kink, always talking about how they were a kinkster rl, etc

we shared multiple friends so eventually this private plurk made its way back to me

i dni'd that person and all their characters. wasn't about to justify myself to this person

thank you for actually explaining what is being talked about here, anon. sorry you had to put up with that shit. i know some people are really bad in this hobby with content warnings for example, and i wish it was easier to ask them to be better about it.

people who go on and on about what a freak they are, how much they love problematic themes and characters, how everyone else is just a baby, is at best a socially inept fandom brat who hasn't grown out of their chuuni phase and at worst the exact kind of person who shouldn't be rping this stuff since they clearly get off on breaking boundaries and being edgier than thou

kudos to all the people who love hard kink but are normal about it. and by normal i mean don't martyrize themselves over it

and if i told you people act like this rl too

many kink communities are unbearable because so many people have main character syndrome where everyone who isn't into the stuff they're into are just not as enlightened

but yeah i'm really sorry this happened to you anon

it's happened to me too because my trigger is considered no big deal online by now

the one people keep forgetting to warn about in this comm even

so sorry this happened to you, anon.

i have some stuff that will cause me to opt out with some characters and am always afraid this will be the response i get. but hearing this is a nice reminder that i don't want to be anywhere near people who react to stuff like this anyway. might be awkward for shared cr, but if i were that third party i'd be seeing that and getting away, too.

anon you can't pull this when you're the one who started it by acting like a dick

i was genuinely asking for an explanation and got called "aggo-chan"

"did you mistake this thread for letters you can't send?" no you were being rude

genuine question, it sounded like op was talking to one person in particular.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generic_you

and doing this isn't rude? ok. have a good night anon.

no, i'm assuming you're unaware of the usage of generic you

sleep tight

there are ways of asking that question without sounding like a shitheel

you did not manage it

cowboy times in space

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