socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2023-11-25 07:13 pm

oh, dreamwidth park is lonely in the dark/all the horny memes have no tag-outs

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Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
you might have to set firmer boundaries with them, which sucks but if you've tried to talk to them about this multiple times and they haven't listened then it's all you really can do

as is they're already ignoring your boundaries though. i have anxiety too, i get it, but it isn't fair to put it on someone else all the time. they need to learn real coping mechanisms and not use you as a quick fix (it hurts both you and them, it also makes them dependent on you) all the time. if they fall back into the same cycle after you talk again, it might be a good idea to pull back. even if they're nice and you like playing with them, it isn't okay for them to treat you like this. you have to think of yourself too and what you can realistically handle

just my two cents