oh to be a beautiful widow taking a rest against my fainting couch

[socksuke_uchiha]

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1.) if you share social media with them (like discord or plurk), either unfollow them or close the conversation for as long as you need so you don't talk about it with them.
2.) play with new people, preferably in a comm different from where most of their tagging goes. if it's a game, go to bs. if it's bs, try game tdms.
3.) don't talk about them. don't bring them up in conversation when you can. if you get the urge to, think of another thread or topic you are also interested in and discuss that. talking about something makes your brain remember it more and it becomes more natural for it to bring it up.

these might sound extreme but I find that overinvestment tends to be a form of validation seeking. the main thing you need to do is to find yourself someone else you enjoy tagging, and to lessen your need to have that person pay attention to you.

when you feel better you can follow them or chat with them again, but until then I think it helps to distance yourself from it.