socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2019-10-06 07:15 pm

i want to do a psl with my character ordering a psl

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(Anonymous) 2019-10-15 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Do bad dragon dildos feel notably different or better than a normal one?

(Anonymous) 2019-10-15 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
incredibly

flares & knots hit the g-spot like nothing else 👌

and when you grind against a vibrator when you're knotted deep? fuuuuuuuuuuck it's a full body experience

da

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Do you recommend a certain model for a first timer? I’ve always been curious but overwhelmed by the luxury of choice from them

da

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
tbh bad dragon is a sketchy company so maybe consider another exotic dildo maker, nonny

dda

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
what a useless, unhelpful comment

either say why bad dragon is sketchy or point the way to some of those alternative exotic dildo makers. or better yet both.

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
How are they sketchy? I've never had issues and I've owned 10+ toys before. They're quick to answer tickets and address issues, so unless you're going to say they're "problematic uwu" for some stupid reason Idk why they'd be sketchy.

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
bd has a history of sending out items with bubbles or other defects in them as flawless, taking photographs of stock toys that hide bubbles/defects, denying warranty claims for items that were flawed or damaged before the buyer received them, copying designs from other smaller fantasy dildo makers, and a number of miscellaneous customer service snafus but it's been a hot minute since i read the particulars.

they're also over priced.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
https://nobd.info has a good list, sorry for not including more specific deets

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
other anon who replied here and: goodness, i hadn't heard a lot of this and i thought i knew what i was talking about.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
original BD anon: tbh I own indie shop toys - I use bad dragon as shorthand for "weird creature dicks" like how people use band-aid as shorthand for bandage

I know "part of the problem" but brand recognition bs is unfortunate

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
i don't own any but i use "monster dildos" as a generic term, anon

i wish there was a better alternative to "googling" though, ugh!

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Monster dicks is good! I was going to say "dragon dicks" but that goes right back to "oh, you mean bad dragon"

I do confess to having bought two BD models from the clearance section in a moment of weakness, but $160 for two mediums with cumtubes and suction cups, one in a promotional color... But any other models I want (nova, fenrir, the tentacles) I'm going to buy 2nd hand if at all

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
clearance is better than paying full price at least! be careful buying second hand though, you don't know how well someone cleaned it or if it's actually sanitizable

i don't get people who buy sex toys and then rarely/never clean them in between uses... and don't even put a condom on them or anything... think of what you're putting in your vagina/ass bruh...

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
oh fuck no

only 100% silicone, always boil before first use, always clean with mild soap before & after each use, antibacterial if anal, store dry in a sterilite container.

idk how people can proudly have a ton of them out on their desks bitch you're gonna get dust mites and hair all over that shit. "sorry about the hair but you know how it is" nah clean your fucking dick.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
i knew a hoarder type who would frequently dig things out of her hoard and simply wipe them off

sometimes when i'm reminded of gross hoarders, i wonder if she did the same with her sex toys she would talk so much about...

Re: ayrt

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Re: da

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
To answer your question, don't order anything above a small if you're a first timer. Trust me, even BD smalls are BIG if you're not used to it. Also, it would depend on if you enjoy texture/want a knot/etc.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
for flares/horse: https://www.etsy.com/shop/HodgePodgeEntourage
Kirin and Qilin models are incredible; I have a small kirin and the difference between the head and shaft feels incredible in use; I'm planning on getting a medium qilin eventually

for knots: https://www.etsy.com/shop/StrangeBedfellas?section_id=22838469
Tyv is INCREDIBLE. He knots so well, stays in place, and feels great to clench & grind. I started with a small tyv and now have a medium as well.

Medium firmness is my preference. A little bit firmer than a real dick but not by a whole lot, and still has a good amount of give. The thicker the toy the firmer it's going to feel tho - When you get into girthier toys, you're going to want softer; I have two toys from other makers (a gnoll from pleasureforge and a sleipnir from bad dragon) that are roughly 8 and a half inches in circumference that I wish I got in softer firmness just so they were a little less hefty.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
damn, these sound great. I never considered a flare before because a knot definitely piques by interest the most, but now I'll have to give it some thought. The firmness is/was my main concern but the medium does sound like the safest bet based on this. thanks for the in-depth answer, nonny! I'm excited to let my freaky flag fly

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
It doesn't SOUND appealing when you hear it, but flares give a really nice "plunging" feeling where the girth works and rolls in deep, whereas knots are just really, really filling and satisfying to grip around. They're wildly different sensations and are both incredible.

np! I know it can be weird to figure out where to start with this shit. just remember that more lube is good lube, and it always helps to work up, no matter what you're doing.

tmi warning for flatviewers who want to avoid us whoremongers

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
virgin da here, how painful can knots be for tight bitches like me?

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(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
virginity or sexual experience has nothing to do with how tight you are. you're tight when you're not aroused. that's why it's pretty much an insult to the guy when he calls you tight. means he's not doing his job and you're not ready for sex.

the answer isn't something anyone can tell you, tbh. every vagina's different. you could have a short vagina. or vaginismus. or something that makes sex painful. or you could be good to go. there's no way to actually help you with that other than saying that you should be careful, take it slow, make sure you're actually aroused and wet and tingly before you try insertion. swollen labia is a good sign of arousal that'd be prime for penetration (puffier labia than when you're not masturbating)

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(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
going -1 the anon above me. if you've never done anything penetrative (even your fingers), it'll probably suck. arousal helps A LOT and does change the size of your vagina, but it's basically a lot of muscle. a muscle that's never been stretched before will be tight. penetrative anything is like yoga for that muscle.

that's not even touching on the shape/size of your hymen. mine had an unfortunately small opening so it took me a long time to even stretch that to accept two fingers. a knot's just a bigger part of the toy, so if you have a hard time with the girth of the head/shaft, it might be a long time before you can fit the knot.

go slow, use a lot more lube than you think you need, start smaller than you think you can, and RELAX. if you're anxious about it fitting, it probably won't.

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(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
da here

i bought from bd a long time ago and i must be a small bitch cause anything getting close to 6" circumference was sorta uncomfortable, depending. 6"+ was either unusable or so uncomfortable to use i never got used to it. a lot of their smalls are that big so if you're thinking about it check size charts. soft firmness does help some.

tmi

(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
it depends on a lot of factors like others have said

the shape of the knot is something you gotta consider. If it's a really sudden bulge, you're going to have a bad time if it's your first knot, even if you've taken dick a dozen times before. for a first knot, you want something with a little give, not a huge difference between the shaft and knot, and some tapering on entrance & exit.

(for a GOOD knot, you want something with a good distance, i want to say quarter inch? from the base and the end of the knot 👀 that way it can lock in)

arousal & lube are very important! if you're not horny for it, you're not gonna get far and where you do get is going to be uncomfortable. even if you ARE horny for it, extra slide is always helpful. no such thing as too much lube unless you're literally slipping down the street.

taking your time is also p important. when you know your body better you can figure out how quickly you can work up to it, but before then get yourself worked up. I recommend orgasming before any serious penetration bc it makes things easy and better. When you're aroused things relax and stretch easier, you get a little more depth, and when you've orgasmed the muscles relax even more ime.

when you first take a big girth, it can feel sore, but it shouldn't be a really awful pain. it's a dull ache as your muscles work in ways they've never worked before - like lifting weights.

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(Anonymous) 2019-10-16 10:18 am (UTC)(link)
+1 to what everyone else said.

Personally I've had two problems with knotted toys:

1. Pointed tips, very common in knotted toys, while a lot of people enjoy them and have no problem, a lot of people, including myself find that to be stabby bullshit that just stabs you in the cervix.

2. Knots with a sudden starting point. While the pop on the insert is the appeal for a lot of people, no matter how within my size range it is, I can't make those go in ever.