rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2019-08-21 11:40 pm

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(frozen comment) Re: ENABLE MEH

(Anonymous) 2019-09-10 06:27 am (UTC)(link)
> I got out of slash years ago because of the toxicity. I promise this not me bashing, I just don't feel comfortable in that realm anymore and I never will again. End of. Boop.

so i couldn't help but notice that despite your comment about "not bashing" anyone, your personal and very public entries (you know, for the account you commented here, so it's not creepy or stalking you on anyone's part when all it takes is one click):

> I got out of the slash community because of this shit. If you don't accept homosexuality, you get ostracized by gay people and the people they brainwash? Because it's looking more and more like this.

first of all, PLEASE do not assume that people who accept those from the lgbt+ community are brainwashed. that is toxic af.

second, if you don't accept homosexuality, why should we accept you? there are a lot of lgbt people on this community, myself included, and when you come to us with hateful rhetoric like that, we're not obligated to interact or rp with you. we don't owe you anything. the only reason "it's looking more and more like this" is because we have to deal with enough bigotry and hatred in the real world and don't want to suffer that shit in our hobbies. knowing that the person on the other end thinks i'm disgusting is not fun and not someone i want anything to do with.

for the record, your roster was interesting to me because you had a character from a certain fandom i genuinely enjoy and don't see often played, but i'd rather tag non-toxic players who don't see me as a "gross sinner" sorry. i don't know what religion you follow, but jesus preached a lot about love and acceptance so you should take a long hard look at your own self before you decide to cast such judgment on anyone.

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(Anonymous) 2019-09-10 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
p.s. i also saw on your post "I don't judge because of that and because I care about people, regardless" but the fact of the matter is, you do judge. saying you're not judging doesn't change the reality that you judge. all you had to say here was that your prefer het, there was no need to add that you "got out of slash years ago because of the toxicity" because that just shows us that you're a judgmental person... and lo and behold it's not just the fact that you're not into lgbt ships, it's that you think homosexuality in itself is gross. sorry but we don't do that here.

by the way, i've known plenty of toxic het players as well, just as i've known toxic m/m and f/f players. toxicity is not exclusive to one's ship preferences and, rather, everything to do with the person, and that's what you need to understand before you start saying crap like that because it's closed-minded and hateful and real people have been hurt by speech like that.

you can ship all the het you want but it is toxic to police or judge what other people ship for fun. making comments about how you "don't accept it or condone" is still inherently judgmental.