rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2019-08-21 11:40 pm

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(Anonymous) 2019-08-25 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
it depends on what you mean by shipping and what you mean by 'gross and bad'. if it's something like an abusive relationship and it's clear that my rp partner has a grasp on fiction =/= reality and doesn't actually think that kind of thing is ok irl/isn't talking about how cute it is or w/e and acknowledges that it's an unhealthy dynamic i'd be way more comfortable. but if this person means shipping as in 'these 2 characters who are relatives/abusive/what have you are in what i think of irl as Tru Love' that would make me really uncomfortable.

i think it works in your favor that you've exercised discretion in mentioning it. basically just show them that you're self-aware if you do ask and be sure to give them a way out in your question i.e. 'i totally understand if not, i know some people can find this offputting/upsetting/gross/adjective of your choice'.